What Is Love? It’s Time To Find Out Your Partner’s Love Language!

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The 5 Love Languages have become popularized as the five primary ways people express and receive love. Everyone’s love language is different and is a reflection of their personality. While everyone can relate to each of the love languages, everyone has a primary love language that influences their relationships.

There are five love languages: Acts of Service, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Words of Affirmation, and Physical Touch. Do you know your partner’s love language? Take this quiz and find out!

What do you look for in a partner?

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Retry Correct Incorrect Most people have imagined at some point in their life what their ideal partner would be and the kind of attributes they would have. What’s important to you in a partner?

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What do you look for in a partner?

Someone who gives me compliments.
Someone who’s always there
Someone who gives meaningful gifts
Someone thoughtful
Someone who loves hugging and cuddling.

What would be a perfect date?

3%

Retry Correct Incorrect Everyone has a different idea of their dream date, from dinner at a restaurant to going down a roller coaster. Are you into a more classic date night or looking for something different?

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What would be a perfect date?

Picnic at the park
Dinner with meaningful conversation
Going to an amusement park
Tickets to see your favorite band
Visiting a street fair

Which word best describes your partner?

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Retry Correct Incorrect Can a word capture the entirety of a person? When it comes down to it, how would you describe your partner? Which word sticks out the most to you when you think of them?

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Which word best describes your partner?

Disciplined
Sensitive
Caring
Assertive
Ambitious

What do you like most about your partner?

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Retry Correct Incorrect Everyone brings something different to the table, but there was something about your partner that particularly attracted you. Was it something about their thoughtfulness, or was it based more on material things? What do you like about them?

Their patience
Their personality
Their thoughtfulness
Their money
Their physical appearance

How does your partner connect with you?

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Retry Correct Incorrect Feeling connected to your partner is an integral part of a relationship, but it needs to be maintained regularly through small actions that make us feel loved. How does your partner connect with you?

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How does your partner connect with you?

When you spend time together
When you help him with something
By appreciating your gifts
When you tell him you love him
By cuddling or holding hands

What does your partner like most about you?

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Retry Correct Incorrect How do you show your partner love? Have they told you what makes them feel loved? Your partner likes you for a reason, so if you had to choose, which reason do they like you?

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What does your partner like most about you?

My openness
My giving nature
My thoughtfulness
How much I like being with them
My reassurance

How does your partner react when you say “I love you”?

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Retry Correct Incorrect As a relationship progresses, saying “I love you” becomes a regular occurrence. How does your partner react to those words? The answer reveals more about their love language than you might have thought!

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How does your partner react when you say “I love you”?

They offer to do a chore for me
They want to spend time together
They give me a hug
They say “I love you too”
They offer to take me shopping

Your partner expresses love by:

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Retry Correct Incorrect There are many ways to express love to another person, and for most people, how they show love is closely related to how they feel loved. How does your partner show you they love you?

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Your partner expresses love by:

By telling me lovely things
Buying me a thoughtful gift
By casually touching me when we’re talking, etc.
Going out of their way to do a chore for me
Planning dates together

What reminds you of your partner?

20%

Retry Correct Incorrect When you’re not with your partner, sometimes there are just little things you notice that make you think of them. Sometimes it’s remembering how they helped you with something, a meal that you two always cook together, or a gift they bought you.

A project they helped me with
Wearing their clothes
A gift they bought me a long time ago
Hearing a song that played early in the relationship
A movie we watched together once

How long have you been with your partner?

23%

Retry Correct Incorrect Sometimes you just hit off with the right person after a short time, and sometimes you’ve been together for years where every day is filled with excitement like the first time you met. How long have you been with your partner?

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How long have you been with your partner?

One year
More than one year
A few months
A month
6 months

Do you know your partner’s love language?

25%

Retry Correct Incorrect How well do you know your partner? Can you guess their love language based on their actions and how they treat you? Knowing your partner’s love language can help you better understand and connect with them and have a happy, more fulfilling relationship.

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Do you know your partner’s love language?

Quality TIme
Physical Touch
Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
Receiving Gifts

How does your partner support you?

28%

Retry Correct Incorrect Does your partner go out of their way to support you during stressful times? Everyone has a different way of showing understanding and compassion for their partner during stressful times. What’s your partner’s method?

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How does your partner support you?

By helping me with little things
They buy me something useful
They give me hugs throughout the day
By arranging a spa day for us
They give me positive reassurance

How does your partner praise you?

30%

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Retry Correct Incorrect Praise in a relationship makes us feel cherished and special. It makes you feel safe and cozy knowing that you have a supportive partner who wants to see you succeed.

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How does your partner praise you?

By offering to help
With words
With gifts
By planning dates
With touch

How does your partner like to relax?

33%

Retry Correct Incorrect How we unwind from a busy day at work or during a stressful time says a lot about our personality. Some people would rather talk it out, and others want to keep physically active. What’s your partner’s preferred way to unwind?

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How does your partner like to relax?

By venting
By getting a massage
By going for a walk together
By eating their favorite cooked meal
By playing a game together

What’s their favorite color?

35%

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Retry Correct Incorrect Some people have a favorite color that dictates their life, informing their clothing choices and everything else. Others may have a few colors they like. Which color does your partner like the most?

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What’s their favorite color?

Red
Green
Yellow
White
Blue

What’s their favorite food?

38%

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Retry Correct Incorrect Do you know your partner’s favorite foods and preferences? A part of a happy relationship is knowing your partner’s likes and dislikes, especially regarding food. What foods does your partner crave?

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What’s their favorite food?

Pizza
Fried Chicken
Oysters
Pasta
Fillet mignon

What’s their favorite sport?

40%

Retry Correct Incorrect Does your partner have a favorite sport? Whether watching TV or participating in a sport in person, your partner’s favorite sport can reveal a lot about their personality. What’s their favorite?

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What’s their favorite sport?

Soccer
Hockey
Tennis
Bicycling
Baseball

What’s your partner’s style?

43%

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Retry Correct Incorrect Your partner’s go-to style defines them while reflecting their personality and preferences. Maybe they prefer feeling comfortable to wearing something flashy, or perhaps they prefer a clean, minimalist style, or even more of a flowy bohemian style.

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What’s your partner’s style?

They have a preppy style
They have a bohemian style
They have a casual style
They have a minimalist style
They only wear designer clothes

What kind of music do they like?

45%

Retry Correct Incorrect Do you know your partner’s favorite music? Do they lean more towards rock music, or are they into danceable pop music? Maybe you’ve influenced each other by sharing music, and now their favorite genre is your favorite too!

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What kind of music do they like?

Dance music
Indie Music
Rock music
Classical music
Pop music

What’s their favorite dessert?

48%

Retry Correct Incorrect Is your partner a chocolate fan, or do they prefer subtler sweets? Do they like extravagant desserts, or will homemade cookies do? One’s dessert taste is very much an indication of the goings on in someone’s mind, much like the layers of a slice of tiramisu.

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What’s their favorite dessert?

Cheesecake
Homemade cookies
Chocolate cake
Macaron
Tiramisu

What’s their zodiac sign?

50%

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Retry Correct Incorrect Like love languages, our zodiac signs indicate aspects of our personalities, and some zodiac signs often correspond to specific love languages. Is this true for your partner? What’s their sign?

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What’s their zodiac sign?

Leo
Pisces
Libra
Virgo
Scorpio

What is your partner’s favorite season?

53%

Retry Correct Incorrect Have you noticed your partner feeling happier during a specific month? Do they love playing in the snow like a little kid during the winter? Or do they light up during the warmer summer months? Which season is their favorite?

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What is your partner’s favorite season?

Winter
Summer
Spring
They love every season
Fall

What kind of movies do they like to watch?

55%

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Retry Correct Incorrect Is your partner a romance fan, seeking the twists and turns of dramatic relationships? Or do they enjoy the shock and violence of a good horror movie? Scientists have noticed that certain personality types are attracted to the same genres.

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What kind of movies do they like to watch?

Horror
Comedy
Drama
Romance
Action

When you argue, how does your partner act?

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Retry Correct Incorrect All couples argue it’s a natural element of any human relationship. When it’s unhealthy and toxic, it starts to become a problem. Healthy arguing is the basis for a healthy relationship. How does your partner argue?

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When you argue, how does your partner act?

By being there and talking it out
By avoiding arguing as much as possible
By leaving the room
By becoming emotional
By pointing fingers

What does your partner do for work?

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Retry Correct Incorrect Your partner’s career may reflect their love language, influencing the work that makes them happy. Is your partner a born educator? Or maybe they excel in leading a team to success.

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What does your partner do for work?

Physical therapist
Communications
Counsellor
Management
Teacher

Does your partner want kids?

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Retry Correct Incorrect Sometimes bringing up the question of having kids in a relationship can be uncomfortable, but it’s something important to consider. Where does your partner stand on the issue? Do they want a big family?

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Does your partner want kids?

They don’t want kids
When they feel ready they’ll have kids
They want to have as many children as possible
They’re not sure if they want kids
They’d like to have at least 3 kids

Does your partner want to get married?

65%

Retry Correct Incorrect Do you know how your partner feels about marriage? Knowing how your partner feels about marriage is another important topic in any serious relationship. Understanding how your partner feels, especially regarding your feelings on the matter, is essential.

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Does your partner want to get married?

100%!
Not at the moment
Yes, they tell me all the time
It already feels like we’re married
They’re waiting for the right time to get married

How does your partner talk about the future together?

68%

Retry Correct Incorrect Is your partner open to talking about the future of your relationship together? How far into the future do they see you two being together? Are they excited, or would they rather not talk about it?

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How does your partner talk about the future together?

By planning future vacations together
By asking me what I want in the future
By talking about buying a home together
They’re more focused on the present
By telling me their plans in great detail

How is your partner with their family?

70%

Retry Correct Incorrect While sometimes your partner’s family dynamics may be out of their control, their overall relationship with their family can influence how they act in their relationship with you and your family. How would you say your partner gets along with their family?

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How is your partner with their family?

Very close, they’re always hugging!
They do a lot of activities together
They show love by buying gifts
They always help each other out
Close, they say lovely things to each other

What do they like to do on vacation?

73%

Retry Correct Incorrect Each love language enjoys their vacation for a different reason. When you travel with your partner, there a telltale signs of how your partner likes to relax, which correlates to their love language, and you can use that to your advantage to make their vacation unforgettable.

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What do they like to do on vacation?

Cuddle at the beach
Walking through a beautiful city
Going to a favorite restaurant
Having a deep conversation
Being treated to fantastic gifts

Where would they like to live?

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Retry Correct Incorrect Where someone wants to live is a reflection of their preferences, from somewhere with a mix of city life and adventurous outdoor activities, to somewhere more chill like Paris. Where would your partner like to live?

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Where would they like to live?

Somewhere with a mix of city and nature like Vancouver
Somewhere modern like Tokyo
Somewhere classic like Paris
Somewhere in the countryside
Somewhere busy like New York City

Are they spiritual or religious?

78%

Retry Correct Incorrect How does your partner feel about religion? Or do they consider themselves to be spiritual instead? Maybe your partner doesn’t feel attracted to either option. It’s important to consider their feelings on the matter as the relationship becomes more serious.

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Are they spiritual or religious?

They are very religious
They would consider themselves to be more spiritual
They are very spiritual
They would consider themselves to be more religious
They don’t consider themselves to be either

How do they take their coffee?

80%

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Retry Correct Incorrect You are what you drink? There may be something about the kind of caffeinated beverage someone loves that says something about their personality. What does your partner drink: a robust black coffee or a sweet frappuccino?

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How do they take their coffee?

Cappucino
Frappuccino
Espresso
Lattes I make with a heart stencil on top
Black

How adventurous is your partner?

83%

Retry Correct Incorrect Is your partner the type of person willing to try anything new? Or are they more on the hesitant side, preferring to stick to what they know? Whichever option you select brings us one step closer to learning your partner’s love language!

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How adventurous is your partner?

They’d rather not try new things
They’re pretty adventurous
Not very open-minded
They’ll try new things as long as we’re together
Sometimes they need reassurance to try new things

What’s your partner’s biggest pet peeve?

85%

Retry Correct Incorrect For some people, the littlest things can set them off. Other a lot more chill. What sets your partner off? It may be a reflection of their love language and what doesn’t make them feel loved.

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What’s your partner’s biggest pet peeve?

Being unaffectionate
Saying mean things
Receiving bad gifts
Not getting help when they need help
People being on their phone too much

What’s their favorite animal?

88%

Retry Correct Incorrect Some animals are very adorable and cuddly. Others can seem more menacing and scary. So it’s no wonder someone’s favorite animal can say a lot about them and their personality.

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What’s their favorite animal?

Bears
Dolphins
Horses
Lions
Monkeys

Which is their favorite social media platform?

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Retry Correct Incorrect Social media has grown to fit different personalities, from Instagram, which focuses on being outgoing, to Twitter which focuses on the power of the written word. What’s your partner’s favorite platform?

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Which is their favorite social media platform?

Instagram
TikTok
YouTube
Twitch
Twitter

Is your partner an extrovert, introvert, or ambivert?

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Retry Correct Incorrect Does your partner shy away from people quickly, or are they immediately open with everyone they meet, or are they just somewhere in the middle? How social or antisocial is your partner?

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Is your partner an extrovert, introvert, or ambivert?

They’re an ambivert
More on the extroverted side
They lean more towards introvert
They’re 100% introverted
They’re 100% extroverted

What would your partner do if they won the lottery?

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Retry Correct Incorrect Winning the lottery can be a dream come true for many. How would your partner react if they won the lottery? Would they spend all their money on their loved ones or put it all in the bank?

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What would your partner do if they won the lottery?

Take a picture with the giant check!
By putting much of it into savings
Buying as many gifts as possible
Talk about all the things they wanna spend the money on
By hiring someone’s services, like a chef or getting a manicure

Do you know what your love language is?

98%

Retry Correct Incorrect Before you can figure out someone else’s love language, do you know what yours is? By understanding your love language, you can understand how both your love languages can mesh together.

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Do you know what your love language is?

Receiving Gifts
Quality Time
Acts of Service
Physical Touch
Words of Affirmation

Congrats, you finished! Here are your results:

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Congrats, you finished! Here are your results:

Retry Acts of Service Your partner’s love language is Acts of Service. This love language means they feel most loved when you go out of your way to do something meaningful for them which will help them or shows that you’re thinking of them. Quality Time Your partner’s love language is Quality Time, which means they feel most loved spending time with you. Think of going out on dates, vacations, or even just going on walks and cooking together. Receiving gifts Your partner’s love language is Receiving Gifts. Your partner loves gifts, and this makes them feel the most loved. Think about buying them something they may have mentioned in passing that they wanted to show them how much you appreciate them. Words of Affirmation Your partner’s love language is Words of Affirmation. Your partner loves it when you reassure them that you love them with kind and loving words. Compliment them regularly, and you’ll make their day. Physical Touch Your partner’s love language is Physical Touch. Your partner loves it whenever you hug, hold hands or lovingly caress each other throughout the day.

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