Man Admits To Googling His Date’s Pills He Found In Her Bathroom
There is always a little part of you that wants to look in the medicine cabinet when you're in someone else's house.
Many people don't end up doing it. One man did, though, and then texted the woman to ask her what the pills he found were for!
Chloe Was Talking To A New Guy
![Bathroom Picture Woman in a black dress taking a selfie in the bathroom.](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Bathroom-Picture-70258.jpeg?width=800&height=987)
Chloe is a 20-year-old woman from the U.K. who was seeing a new man.
She thought that things had been going pretty well and he had recently been over to her house.
He Googled Her Pills
![Googled Her Pills Screenshot of a text message where a man asks a woman if she is mentally ill and that if she is then he doesn't want to continue their relationship](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Googled-Her-Pills-91442.jpg?width=800&height=1273)
She shared a screenshot of a text where the man told her that he had googled the pills in her bathroom.
He discovered they were antipsychotics and had the audacity to ask if she was "mentally ill," because, if she was, then he didn't want to keep talking.
Who Is The Crazy One?
![Texts Text exchange where person asks if they googled their pills and the response says that they didn't want to end up with another crazy chick.](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Texts-73374.jpg?width=800&height=423)
She responded and just asked if he googled her pills.
That's when he said he didn't want to end up with a "crazy chick" and accused her of gaslighting. He seems to be showing another side of himself.
What Is Gaslighting?
![Arguing Man and woman sitting at a desk arguing.](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Arguing-40747.jpg)
He accused her of some gaslighting behavior, but what is gaslighting?
Gaslighting happens when someone gives someone else false information that makes them end up questioning their own perspective and sanity.
He Saw The Video
![He Saw The Video Screenshot of a text message saying](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/He-Saw-The-Video-69787.jpg?width=800&height=484)
She did not respond to his last message and it seems like he was looking for one.
He did message her again telling her to grow up after he saw the TikTok video that she made about the texts.
The Video Went Viral
![TikTok Video Picture of a TikTok video showing it had 1 million likes and over 20,000 comments.](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/TikTok-Video-74186.jpg)
The video exploded on Chloe's TikTok page.
It received more than 8.5 million views. The text exchange also really got people talking with more than 20,500 individual comments on the video.
He Blamed Her
![She Was Blamed Screenshot of a text message of man calling a woman crazy. Text on screen saying](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/She-Was-Blamed-17490.jpg?width=800&height=800)
People in the comments were very much on team Chloe in this situation.
This person was shocked that she was the one who was getting accused of doing the gaslighting and not him.
She Dodged A Bullet
![Dodged A Bullet Screenshot of a text message of a man saying he didn't want to take out another crazy girl. Other text reads](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Dodged-A-Bullet-24448.jpg?width=800&height=800)
Another person thinks that Chloe is the lucky person in this unfortunate situation.
They summed it up rather simply and said that they think she dodged a big bullet with this man.
He's The Gaslighter
![He's Gaslighting Her Screenshot of a text message where a man says he didn't want to take out another crazy chick. Other text on screen reads](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Hes-Gaslighting-Her-32319.jpg?width=800&height=800)
This person was also surprised that he was the one calling her the gaslighter.
They think that he was the one gaslighting her into thinking that she was wrong in all of this.
Didn't Give Him The Answer He Wanted
![Wanted To Address It Screenshot of a man saying that he didn't want to end up with another crazy chick. Other text on-screen reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Wanted-To-Address-It-80999.jpg?width=800&height=800)
This comment is pointing out that Chloe took the high road in this by not calling him out.
They also think that she didn't give him the answer he was looking for which was that she was dealing with some mental health issues.
Suggested A Comeback
![Straightened Out Screenshot of a text message. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Straightened-Out-65873.jpg)
This person had a suggestion for how Chloe could respond to the message.
They thought that it could be a good thing for her to point out that it's a good thing she's taking the medication to help her mental health.
Couldn't Believe It
![Can't Believe Screenshot of a text message exchange. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Cant-Believe-62686.jpg)
Many people commented saying that they were shocked at this whole situation.
While some people went into more detail, this person was just short and sweet and said that they couldn't believe that it was a real situation.
Went On With It Anyway
![Do it anyway Screenshot of a text message exchange. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Do-it-anyway-26462.jpg?width=800&height=800)
This comment pointed out that, in a way, the man knew what he was doing was invasive.
He actually said that he knew what he was doing was invasive but still did it anyway.
The Irony Is Not Lost
![He Was Nosy Screenshot of a text exchange. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/He-Was-Nosy-62400.jpg)
This person felt that the biggest issue wasn't even that he googled the pills.
What they felt was more of a turn-off was how invasive and nosy he decided to be.
He Made A Bad Assumption
![Assumption Screenshot of a text message. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Assumption-69596.jpg)
There were a lot of people offering her suggestions on how to respond.
This person thought that she should say how he invaded her privacy and made an incorrect judgment of her character.
Response Suggestion
![Super Invasive Screenshot of a text message. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Super-Invasive-97261.jpg)
Many people were telling Chloe that she should not continue to see this man.
This person wanted her to say that he really crossed a line and that he would not be able to see her anymore.
Taking His Side
![He's Allowed Screenshot of a text message. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Hes-Allowed-82242.jpg)
While the majority of people were in support of Chloe, there were some who were on the man's side.
This person felt that it was okay for him to say that he did not want to date someone who might be mentally ill.
Terrible Execution On His Part
![Terrible Execution Screenshot of a text message. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Terrible-Execution-50192.jpg)
This was another example of someone who was not completely against what he did.
This person thought that it was okay to take that stance, but didn't like the way that he went about it.
Say Yes And Ghost Him
![Say Yes And Move On Screenshot of a text message. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Say-Yes-And-Move-On-83040.jpg)
There were a lot of people who put themselves into Chloe's shoes and wondered what they would say.
This person would agree that he was very invasive and then just ghost him.
Yes And Run
![Yes And Run Screenshot of a text message exchange. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Yes-And-Run-61822.jpg)
This comment was another example of someone who thought that a long response was not needed.
They thought that she should have told him that he was right and that he needed to run.
He Needs Them More
![You need them more Screenshot of a text message exchange. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/You-need-them-more-32389.jpg?width=800&height=800)
This comment was another suggestion by someone who thought she should tell him off a little.
They thought that she should tell him that he might need the medication more than she does.
Made Them Very Mad
![So mad I'm nauseous Screenshot of a text message exchange. Text reading :That literally made me so mad I'm nauseous.](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/So-mad-Im-nauseous-74284.jpg?width=800&height=800)
Some people were also angered by seeing her video.
This person let her know that she was angered by this interaction so much that she became nauseous after seeing it.
Glad She Doesn't Have To Waste Her Time
![Don't Have To Waste Time Screenshot of a text message exchange. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Dont-Have-To-Waste-Time-84928.jpg)
This is another example of someone who felt that she was the one who was better off.
They thought that this showed that he clearly would have been a waste of her time.
They're Common
![They're Common Screenshot of a text message exchange. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Theyre-Common-45340.jpg)
This person thought that the man was going to be in for a surprise.
They said that someone taking medication to help with their mental health is very common and a lot of people use them.
Good Riddance
![Good Riddance Screenshot of text message exchange. Text reading Thank god this man exposed himself early on - good riddance](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Good-Riddance-69777.jpg)
This person felt that, in a way, it was good that she learned this about him early on.
They felt that it was a good thing that he showed his true colors.
Universe Doing Them A Favor
![Universe doing a favor Screenshot of a text message exchange. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Universe-doing-a-favor-13338.jpg)
There were also a few people who were saying that this may have been a bigger sign reaching out to her.
They felt that this was the universe doing her a favor.
He Was Violating Privacy
![He's A Turn-off Screenshot of a text message exchange. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Hes-A-Turn-off-22072.jpg)
This person wanted Chloe to tell him that it was actually her who was turned off.
They think she should say that it works out great for her and she never wants to see him again.
Very Ironic
![Went out of his way Screenshot of a text message exchange. Text reading](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Went-out-of-his-way-98997.jpg?width=800&height=800)
The irony was not lost on this person with their comment on the situation.
They think that him invading her privacy to find this out is something that he should not have done.
Still Enjoying Life
![Mirror Selfie Woman taking a mirror selfie with her eyes open.](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Mirror-Selfie-83220.jpg)
Despite the whole situation, Chloe is just enjoying her life.
She posts a lot of content on her TikTok account that shows her doing a lot of different things and also sharing her opinion on things.
Staying Active
![In The Gym Woman taking a mirror selfie in the gym wearing headphones.](https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/In-The-Gym-61692.jpg)
She also enjoys staying active and working out and shares her results.
Chloe posts content about her workout journey and the progress that she is making in the gym with her workouts.