Man Accuses Woman Of ‘Fat-Fishing’ Him After Meeting In Person

The online dating world can be the wild wild west.

You never really know what you are getting into when you meet someone for the first time. A woman shared her story of how she got accused of fat-fishing her date.

Micah Is Single

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Micah is a single working professional who is in the dating world.

She is on online dating apps and was talking to a man who she was interested in meeting up with in person.

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Works As A Personal Chef

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Micah works professionally as a private chef, which she includes in her profile.

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Her date saw this fact and asked if she could make a meal for him. She thought it would be better to start with a drink.

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Appears On Television

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Micah also appears as a guest on Canadian television where she shares her recipes.

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This is not something that she has chosen to include in the "about me" section of her online dating profiles.

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She Went On The Date

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The two arranged a date where they would meet and go for drinks.

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The man met Micah and they both walked to the restaurant together. He was shorter than he said he was on his profile.

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He Was Being Combative

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When they sat down for drinks, Micah was the one who was leading the conversation.

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She also found her date to be very combative. She said that overall, he was being very negative.

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He Said She Had An Attitude

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He told her that he felt that she had an attitude where she felt that she was cool.

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He said that he thought that the attitude was because she is on television.

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They Started The Date Over

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Despite the two of them not immediately hitting it off, Micah wanted to stay and have another drink.

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They both agreed to start the date over again and things went well after that.

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She Was "Skinnier In Person"

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At the end of the date, he told her that he thought that she was going to be too heavy for him.

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He said that she had a hot girl attitude that he liked. He asked if he was going to be able to sleep with her that night, and if not, he was not going to pay for her drinks.

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His Text The Next Day

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He then started yelling at her about feminism in the restaurant and left.

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The next day, he sent her a text saying that she should hit the gym and update her dating profile pictures.

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Accusing Her Of Fat-Fishing

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Then he accused her of fat-fishing him.

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He said that if she expected him to treat her like a goddess, she would need to get in the gym and work for that treatment.