If you had a slight inclination already that some men are trash, we’re here to confirm those theories. These men brought the standard down to new lows we didn’t even know (or at least hoped) that we could reach.
Not only did these men make their partner feel unloved, but they had their women wondering if they straight-up hated them.
Do You Ever Wonder If Your Man Hates You?
Let’s just make one thing clear from the get-go: If you ever sit there and wonder if your man actually really hates you, then you should definitely be leaving him, like yesterday.
However, sometimes you don’t even realize and a specific moment brings it all to light. @Oloni sparked quite the conversation when she asked women to share their moments.
Not Educated Enough To Be An Equal
Not only should two partners in a relationship be considered equal, but equality isn’t even defined by our education level.
A person’s value is determined by how much they care for others and if are a basic decent human being, which he wasn’t.
Babies Are No Big Deal, Right?
Having a baby has got to be one of the biggest deals any woman has to go through.
In a sense, it’s so magical that it doesn’t completely make sense, but that’s the last thing a pregnant woman wants to hear mid-contractions.
Love Isn’t All About Risks
We understand that a lot of love is dependent on risks. You have to risk being vulnerable because your heart might get broken, for example.
However, risking someone’s life with their allergies just for fun? That’s not exactly part of it.
Someone’s A Little Dramatic
Clearly, there was a lot built up here, but if there was something bothering him then he should’ve communicated it rather than freaked out over mustard.
There is a time and a place, and embarrassing your partner in public is not it.
It’s Called Manipulation
One of the worst forms of manipulation is breaking down a person from the inside. They end up feeling so low that they’re “easier” to take advantage of.
Rather than blame someone for your intentions, just be honest from the beginning.
How To Treat A Woman 101
We’re pretty sure the first rule of treating women right is treating all women right. Picking and choosing which women deserve it kind of contradicts the entire purpose.
We have a feeling that the way his mother raised him has nothing to do with it.
Priorities Need To Be Checked
In order of priorities from what’s most important to what can wait, we’re pretty sure a hospital visit following a car crash comes before a flag football game.
But what do we know?!
That’s Just Rude
Technically if she was the one who organized it she shouldn’t need an invite.
However, a man who doesn’t want his supposed partner there to share the important events with isn’t really worth being celebrated in the first place.
Not Worth A Single Tear
We’re just glad that she’s crying about the movie and not over him because he’s not worth a single tear.
It’s also comments like these that are a desperate call for attention.
The First Step Is Awareness
Listen, we can acknowledge that the first step to positive change and growth is becoming aware of what we’re doing wrong.
However, usually the next step after that is a plan of action to change, like an apology maybe…
Not Going The Distance
If you’re ever looking for a sign from the universe, sometimes it sends you one loud and clear.
It’s easy for us to miss the red flags, so think of incidents like this as a blessing in disguise, saving you from further heartache.
Panic Attacks Are no Joke
It’s not even about the actual panic attacks but the principle.
When your partner is going through a tough moment, the whole point of a partnership is to support them and ask them what they need to get through it, not blame them for it.
“Call Me When You’re Done Crying”
You don’t exactly get a fast-forward button to skip over the moments when you’re called out for causing someone pain.
The right thing to do is to take accountability for the pain or show sympathy, not make her deal with it on her own.
Take A Look In The Mirror
You know what? She was wrong about something. But it wasn’t that she had to take a look at herself because she was unpleasant.
Rather, if she had to ask him to be nice to her then he clearly didn’t deserve her in the first place. She shouldn’t have even bother waiting around to ask.