Woman’s Date Sends Her A Text Meant For His Friend Calling Her A ‘Solid 4’

Texting the wrong person can be rather embarrassing.

A woman has gone viral on TikTok for sharing her story of what happened when her date texted her something that was meant for his friend.

Samantha Rose

Samantha Rose is a young working professional.

Blonde haired woman looking into the camera.
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Photo Credit: @samandthestars / Instagram

She works as a social media and public relations coordinator. She is very active on social media because of the nature of the work that she does.

She Fosters Children

She is also a foster mom.

Woman lying on bed holding a baby
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Photo Credit: @samandthestars / Instagram

She has fostered a number of small babies and has also shared that journey on her Instagram account. It is something that she is very proud of.

Going On A Date With Jake

She is also on dating apps and shared a screenshot of a text from a man named Jake.

Woman looking at camera. Text conversation behind her of her setting up a date with a man.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

Jake is complimenting her and talking about how he is looking forward to their upcoming date.

He Called Her ‘A Solid 4’

Then Jake slips up and sends Samantha a text message where he calls her “a solid 4.”

Screenshot of a text message of a man telling her that she is a solid 4 that he says was meant for a friend.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

He quickly tried to cover his tracks and say that it was not meant for her (obviously) and that he was talking about someone else.

She Didn’t Respond

She did not respond to this text because she didn’t feel it was deserving of one.

Blonde haired woman wearing a mask on her chin and text asking her if she responded.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

This man was clearly not who she thought he was and so she was going to cut her losses and move on after making a TikTok about it.

Jake Messaged Back

Jake messaged her the day after she made the TikTok video and was not too impressed.

Text from Jake asking why she didn't show for the date and then make a TikTok about it. Belittling her for fostering kids.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

He called her crazy and even criticized her for being a foster parent and claimed it was because her dating life wasn’t successful.

Catfish Accuser

Samantha still had not responded, but that didn’t stop Jake from having a one-way conversation.

Screenshot of woman's Instagram feed and text from man accusing her of being a catfish.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

He now moved on to calling her a catfish because she looked different in her TikToks and her Instagram profile.

Jake Begins To Unwind

From there, Jake really falls off of the wagon.

Screenshot of text where man is accusing her of being crazy and asking if she has a chronic illness.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

He started to call her fat and asked if she had a chronic illness that might be contributing to her weight problem. He also said she can’t take a joke.

Matched With Another Person Earlier

Samantha had a theory that Jake may not actually be Jake.

Screenshot of a Bumble conversation where person says they have matched before.
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She had matched with someone earlier on Bumble who said that they had matched before. She asked him to text her to see if that was true.

Previous Conversations Didn’t Show Up

He did have her number but their previous conversations did not show up.

Screenshot of texts where woman tells a man that she thinks he has her mixed up with someone else.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

This was odd because Samantha said she never deletes any conversations and keeps conversations for years. She knew that they didn’t talk before.

Sees Simarities To Jake

Samantha was going to stop responding, but again, this person needed to have the last word.

Screenshot of text conversation where man is calling a woman boring and says they will stop talking.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

She started to see a lot of similarities in the way that “Jake” had been talking to her.

He Also Has A Quick Temper

Samantha told him that she didn’t care why they were not going to be talking anymore.

Text conversation where woman is arguing with man and he calls her fat and claims she's trying to turn the situation around.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

That’s when he called her chubby which was a similar route to what Jake had done. This person also had the same poor spelling Jake had.

Other People Know Him

People began to send Samantha messages that they knew the man she was talking to.

Snapchat screenshot of someone telling her that the man is crazy.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

They told her that he is crazy and that they knew of other girls who had horror stories from talking to him.

He Does This

Another person messaged her and told her that he does this after he has been rejected by a number of girls.

Snapchat screenshot where person says that this is what this man does and he's crazy.
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Photo Credit: @samantha_roseeeee / TikTok

While she never was able to 100% prove that this man and Jake were the same person, she certainly has reason to believe they are.