Woman Refuses To Wear Makeup To Meet Boyfriend’s Friends For The First Time

A big step in a relationship is when you meet your partner's friends for the first time.

A woman on TikTok, @xilily.brown8x, shared a cringe-worthy exchange with her boyfriend about wearing makeup to meet his friends.

They Were Going To Dinner

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The conversation begins with the boyfriend sending her a message.

He was checking in to see if she had started getting ready for what they were going to be doing that night.

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Ready To Go

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She responded rather quickly and said that she was ready.

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So far, so good. He checked in and she was already ready to go for their evening plans. Where would it go next?

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Wants To See

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In what appears to be a sweet message, he asked to see a picture of what she looked like.

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He also called her gorgeous and included two of the heart emojis.

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She Thought It Was Cute

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She seemed to agree that it was sweet that he wanted to see what she looked like.

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A lot of women would probably see this as a cute message to receive.

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Not Wearing Any Makeup

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Before she sent him a picture, she told him that she was not wearing any makeup.

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She seemed to think that this was not a big deal as the night was supposed to be casual.

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He Wants Her To Wear Some

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Her boyfriend did not seem to like that she did not have any makeup on.

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He asked her to put some on as she was going to be meeting his friends for the first time.

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Is He Joking?

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This response from him appears to have taken her back a little bit.

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It seemed like he was expecting her to get all done up with makeup to meet his friends for the first time.

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Doesn't Want Them Thinking She's Ugly

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This is when things started to take a turn in the wrong direction.

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Her boyfriend responded back by saying that the reason he wanted her to put some makeup on is so his friends don't think he has an ugly girlfriend.

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She Was Shocked

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Needless to say, she was also less than impressed with that response.

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He called her "clapped" which is a slang term for calling someone ugly. Did he think she was ugly without makeup on?

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Worried About First Impressions

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Based on the sweating emojis, it seems like he had realized that he was in some hot water.

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He said that he was suggesting it more for her first impression with his friends.

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She's Going To Be Sick

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She was beginning to feel rather irritated by what he was asking her to do.

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She said that she felt that she was going to be sick from this whole conversation.

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She Didn't Want To Go Anymore

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She then started to tell him how she was feeling about the situation.

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She said that she did not want to go because he had made her feel bad about the whole thing.

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Makeup Or Don't Come

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He then told her that she needed to put some makeup on or not come at all.

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He said because he "cba" which is another slang term meaning that he just can't be bothered.

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Questioning Her Taste In Men

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At this point, she seemed to be very upset with her boyfriend.

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She also seemed to be questioning her taste in men, as she was asking herself why she always ends up with men who are toxic.