Woman Refuses To Wear Makeup To Meet Boyfriend’s Friends For The First Time

A big step in a relationship is when you meet your partner’s friends for the first time.

A woman on TikTok, @xilily.brown8x, shared a cringe-worthy exchange with her boyfriend about wearing makeup to meet his friends.

They Were Going To Dinner

The conversation begins with the boyfriend sending her a message.

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He was checking in to see if she had started getting ready for what they were going to be doing that night.

Ready To Go

She responded rather quickly and said that she was ready.

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So far, so good. He checked in and she was already ready to go for their evening plans. Where would it go next?

Wants To See

In what appears to be a sweet message, he asked to see a picture of what she looked like.

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He also called her gorgeous and included two of the heart emojis.

She Thought It Was Cute

She seemed to agree that it was sweet that he wanted to see what she looked like.

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A lot of women would probably see this as a cute message to receive.

Not Wearing Any Makeup

Before she sent him a picture, she told him that she was not wearing any makeup.

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She seemed to think that this was not a big deal as the night was supposed to be casual.

He Wants Her To Wear Some

Her boyfriend did not seem to like that she did not have any makeup on.

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He asked her to put some on as she was going to be meeting his friends for the first time.

Is He Joking?

This response from him appears to have taken her back a little bit.

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It seemed like he was expecting her to get all done up with makeup to meet his friends for the first time.

Doesn’t Want Them Thinking She’s Ugly

This is when things started to take a turn in the wrong direction.

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Her boyfriend responded back by saying that the reason he wanted her to put some makeup on is so his friends don’t think he has an ugly girlfriend.

She Was Shocked

Needless to say, she was also less than impressed with that response.

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He called her “clapped” which is a slang term for calling someone ugly. Did he think she was ugly without makeup on?

Worried About First Impressions

Based on the sweating emojis, it seems like he had realized that he was in some hot water.

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He said that he was suggesting it more for her first impression with his friends.

She’s Going To Be Sick

She was beginning to feel rather irritated by what he was asking her to do.

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She said that she felt that she was going to be sick from this whole conversation.

She Didn’t Want To Go Anymore

She then started to tell him how she was feeling about the situation.

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She said that she did not want to go because he had made her feel bad about the whole thing.

Makeup Or Don’t Come

He then told her that she needed to put some makeup on or not come at all.

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He said because he “cba” which is another slang term meaning that he just can’t be bothered.

Questioning Her Taste In Men

At this point, she seemed to be very upset with her boyfriend.

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She also seemed to be questioning her taste in men, as she was asking herself why she always ends up with men who are toxic.