Woman Discovers Her Boyfriend Is Married After Checking His Location

Dating in today’s day in age isn’t what it used to be. Now that we have phones, we can communicate 24/7, and even keep tabs on where each other is at all times.

This is the story of how a woman walked in on her boyfriend and his wife at their gender reveal party. Let’s just say that things get messy pretty fast.

This Drama-Filled Story Starts With A TikTok

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Photo Credit: @deconstruting_alisa / TikTok

TikTok user @deconstruting_alisa posts user-submitted dramatic relationship stories. And boy, let’s just say that some couples are clearly going THROUGH IT.

Alisa explains the story in a voice-over, and draws pictures to accompany it.

Secret Family

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Photo Credit: Nathan Dumlao / Unsplash

So, what if, one day, you discover that your boyfriend isn’t only cheating on you, but he has a whole family you didn’t know about?

This anonymous woman’s ex had a WIFE and a BABY on the way, and this is the story of how she found out.

It Started With A Morning Text

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Photo Credit: Canva

One day, this woman texted her boyfriend ‘good morning’ like she always did.

She was confused when he didn’t respond, so she texted him two more times. After a few hours, she decided to check his location.

His Location

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Photo Credit: Tamas Tuzes-Katai / Unsplash

When she checked his location, she saw that he was at a random park that she had never heard of.

Naturally, the woman decided to get in her car and track her man down.

When She Arrives At The Park…

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Photo Credit: Melvin Thambi / Unsplash

When she hopped out of her car, she saw a group of people celebrating something in the park.

When she got closer, she saw that it was a gender reveal party! She knew that her boyfriend didn’t have any friends who were expecting, so this was a HUGE red flag.

She Starts Freaking Out

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Photo Credit: Ivan Aleksic / Unsplash

So, this woman goes back into her car and starts flipping out. And honestly, who can blame her? It’s hard to cover up a whole family.

Naturally, she calls her best friend, Rachel, for some advice.

Rachel’s Advice

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Photo Credit: Natalie Chaney / Unsplash

Rachel tells her to make him sweat and to not do anything that she will regret. So, the woman decides to go to the gender reveal party.

She made sure that nobody saw her come in, including her ex. Then she decides to blend in with the crowd and introduced herself as her ex’s coworker to people she spoke with.

Time For Cake

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Photo Credit: Luísa Schetinger / Unsplash

She spots her boyfriend with the pregnant woman and observes them from a distance. As she tries not to lose it, she enjoys a piece of cake.

Later after she left, her boyfriend texts her, owning up to everything. Somehow, he has figured out that she went to the party.

“I’m Sorry, But Don’t Do Anything!”

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Over text, he claims that he’s trying to change and that he is sorry. The man claims that he knows that he’s a horrible person.

He begins to plead with her to not do anything that could ruin his marriage.

The Online Sleuthing Begins

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Photo Credit: Thomas Lefebvre / Unsplash

This infuriates her, so she says that she won’t promise anything to him. Later when she has calmed down, she takes matters into her own hands.

So, instead of keeping quiet, she goes down to the courthouse to obtain a copy of his marriage records.

When LinkedIn Comes In Handy

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She went to Google, and stalked his wife online to get some more info. She found her LinkedIn page, which gave her access to the wife’s work email.

She sent the wife an email detailing EVERYTHING, including romantic photos of her and her two-timing ex-man for proof.

She Never Got A Response

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Photo Credit: Bermix Studio / Unsplash

The woman never got a response back from the woman or her ex.

But, she noticed that a few weeks ago, the wife’s Facebook status changed from married to, you guessed it: SINGLE.

At Least She Was Calm About It

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Photo Credit: Max van den Oetelaar / Unsplash

Revenge is a dish best served cold, not when you’re in the heat of the moment.

MAJOR props to this woman for keeping her cool at the gender reveal party. Because honestly, I’m not sure if I could have done the same thing.