Man Admits To Googling His Date’s Pills He Found In Her Bathroom

There is always a little part of you that wants to look in the medicine cabinet when you're in someone else's house.

Many people don't end up doing it. One man did, though, and then texted the woman to ask her what the pills he found were for!

Chloe Was Talking To A New Guy

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Chloe is a 20-year-old woman from the U.K. who was seeing a new man.

She thought that things had been going pretty well and he had recently been over to her house.

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He Googled Her Pills

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She shared a screenshot of a text where the man told her that he had googled the pills in her bathroom.

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He discovered they were antipsychotics and had the audacity to ask if she was "mentally ill," because, if she was, then he didn't want to keep talking.

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Who Is The Crazy One?

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She responded and just asked if he googled her pills.

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That's when he said he didn't want to end up with a "crazy chick" and accused her of gaslighting. He seems to be showing another side of himself.

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What Is Gaslighting?

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He accused her of some gaslighting behavior, but what is gaslighting?

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Gaslighting happens when someone gives someone else false information that makes them end up questioning their own perspective and sanity.

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He Saw The Video

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She did not respond to his last message and it seems like he was looking for one.

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He did message her again telling her to grow up after he saw the TikTok video that she made about the texts.

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The Video Went Viral

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The video exploded on Chloe's TikTok page.

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It received more than 8.5 million views. The text exchange also really got people talking with more than 20,500 individual comments on the video.

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He Blamed Her

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People in the comments were very much on team Chloe in this situation.

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This person was shocked that she was the one who was getting accused of doing the gaslighting and not him.

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She Dodged A Bullet

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Another person thinks that Chloe is the lucky person in this unfortunate situation.

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They summed it up rather simply and said that they think she dodged a big bullet with this man.

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He's The Gaslighter

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This person was also surprised that he was the one calling her the gaslighter.

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They think that he was the one gaslighting her into thinking that she was wrong in all of this.

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Didn't Give Him The Answer He Wanted

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This comment is pointing out that Chloe took the high road in this by not calling him out.

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They also think that she didn't give him the answer he was looking for which was that she was dealing with some mental health issues.

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Suggested A Comeback

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This person had a suggestion for how Chloe could respond to the message.

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They thought that it could be a good thing for her to point out that it's a good thing she's taking the medication to help her mental health.

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Couldn't Believe It

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Many people commented saying that they were shocked at this whole situation.

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While some people went into more detail, this person was just short and sweet and said that they couldn't believe that it was a real situation.

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Went On With It Anyway

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This comment pointed out that, in a way, the man knew what he was doing was invasive.

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He actually said that he knew what he was doing was invasive but still did it anyway.

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The Irony Is Not Lost

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This person felt that the biggest issue wasn't even that he googled the pills.

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What they felt was more of a turn-off was how invasive and nosy he decided to be.

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He Made A Bad Assumption

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There were a lot of people offering her suggestions on how to respond.

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This person thought that she should say how he invaded her privacy and made an incorrect judgment of her character.

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Response Suggestion

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Many people were telling Chloe that she should not continue to see this man.

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This person wanted her to say that he really crossed a line and that he would not be able to see her anymore.

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Taking His Side

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While the majority of people were in support of Chloe, there were some who were on the man's side.

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This person felt that it was okay for him to say that he did not want to date someone who might be mentally ill.

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Terrible Execution On His Part

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This was another example of someone who was not completely against what he did.

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This person thought that it was okay to take that stance, but didn't like the way that he went about it.

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Say Yes And Ghost Him

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There were a lot of people who put themselves into Chloe's shoes and wondered what they would say.

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This person would agree that he was very invasive and then just ghost him.

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Yes And Run

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This comment was another example of someone who thought that a long response was not needed.

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They thought that she should have told him that he was right and that he needed to run.

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He Needs Them More

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This comment was another suggestion by someone who thought she should tell him off a little.

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They thought that she should tell him that he might need the medication more than she does.

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Made Them Very Mad

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Some people were also angered by seeing her video.

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This person let her know that she was angered by this interaction so much that she became nauseous after seeing it.

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Glad She Doesn't Have To Waste Her Time

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This is another example of someone who felt that she was the one who was better off.

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They thought that this showed that he clearly would have been a waste of her time.

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They're Common

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This person thought that the man was going to be in for a surprise.

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They said that someone taking medication to help with their mental health is very common and a lot of people use them.

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Good Riddance

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This person felt that, in a way, it was good that she learned this about him early on.

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They felt that it was a good thing that he showed his true colors.

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Universe Doing Them A Favor

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There were also a few people who were saying that this may have been a bigger sign reaching out to her.

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They felt that this was the universe doing her a favor.

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He Was Violating Privacy

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This person wanted Chloe to tell him that it was actually her who was turned off.

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They think she should say that it works out great for her and she never wants to see him again.

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Very Ironic

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The irony was not lost on this person with their comment on the situation.

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They think that him invading her privacy to find this out is something that he should not have done.

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Still Enjoying Life

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Despite the whole situation, Chloe is just enjoying her life.

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She posts a lot of content on her TikTok account that shows her doing a lot of different things and also sharing her opinion on things.

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Staying Active

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She also enjoys staying active and working out and shares her results.

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Chloe posts content about her workout journey and the progress that she is making in the gym with her workouts.