People Are Sharing The Non-Sexual Things That Turned Them On, And It Is Sending Me
When someone asks you about the things that turn you on, we immediately go to the sexual things, and usually, that's what they're asking for.
But what about all those other things that weirdly get you going even though there isn't anything sexual about them? Sometimes they're such simple things, but they feel so intimate.
Massages In General, Right?
When you ask someone who is not a massage therapist for a massage, you pretty much know what that means, but there is something amazing about a professional getting those extra tough muscles.
Handle With Care
I think it's an exciting thing, too, when someone likes to look at what I have. It gives you the feeling that they're learning about you and asking you questions about yourself.
It's Harder Than It Looks
Taking glasses off, putting glasses on, if you can do those things without poking a person's eye, you better apply some lip chap because some smooching is going to start soon.
Just A Little Tease
Humans are inquisitive by nature, so when you start to see a little flash of skin you're going to be drawn to it. You've got to see what everyone else is working with.
Look At Us Being Responsible
You almost feel like you're at the same place in life—you know, actually grocery shopping—and that probably means you'd be a great partner. You live out your whole tiny romance in the aisles.
"What Moisturizer Do You Use?"
There is something so intimate about touching someone's hand, especially if it is someone you don't know. It feels like such a personal thing even though we use our hands so much.
Always Get Up For IT
I think this one just comes down to being that close to someone. We don't usually spend time in other people's bubbles unless we know them intimately, or want to.
Everyone Loves To Laugh
When you lock eyes with someone in a crowd while laughing at something that's happening around you, you're suddenly sharing that moment in each other's memories forever. That's pretty wild.
Someone Is Looking For An Office Romance
Arms and shoulders are some of the sexiest not-traditionally-sexy body parts a person can have, doesn't matter what gender you are. It's just something about seeing those sleeves pushed back. So casual and cute.
"Excuse Me"
Someone reaching over you at a table or in a store is just like the person standing behind you at the computer. They're in your space in a way that you're not used to having someone there.
This One Is Kind Of Sexual
Since every human on Earth is a pervert in some way, shape, or form, doing things like eating a popsicle or a banana has become a bit taboo. However, there is something cute about watching someone struggle to eat a popsicle without making a mess.
Who Else Hates The Eye Doctor?
Every time I go to the eye doctor and get ready for them to be in my face, I stress out so much about what my breath smells like. I'm sure they've had some nasty encounters.
Someone Had To Say It
There is something about someone buckling you into a roller coaster that feels sexy, for sure. It's probably because you've already got that adrenaline pumping and you're dressed for the hot weather.
You Love Watching Them Do What They Love
When you're lucky enough to get to watch someone do something they're passionate about, it feels really intimate and like you're getting to know someone in a real way, don't you think?
To My Crush: "Can You Help Me With This?"
When you get someone to do up your necklace, you've got a couple of things at play. You've got the fact that they're probably touching your hair and your neck, and you get to see how good they are with their fingers.
So Gentle, So Hot
This is totally a thing! Every other girl I've talked to about this has said it is a weird turn on when someone gently touches them to pass by. Of course, it's usually someone they kind of know, and not a complete stranger.
Nothing Like A Good Old-Fashioned Convo
There is a special feeling that comes from being able to communicate with a person in a genuine way. It makes you feel like you're connected spiritually or emotionally or something cheesy like that.
Oh, Yes
Everyone loves having their hair played with, no matter who you are. What's even better, though, is when a hairdresser washes your hair at the salon. The way they get in there with their fingers and really scrub that scalp...
Mouths Are Hot
You see all the time in articles on the internet that when someone is looking at your mouth, it probably means they want to kiss. That's why your heart races a bit when you catch someone doing it.
Someone Had To Say It
Going to the gym can be sexy, sometimes. It's all those hormones flying all over the place and people sweating it all out. It almost feels animal, you know? Something like that, anyway.
We're All Cats Deep Down
Every person I know really does love their head being rubbed or scratched. It makes me think that deep down, we truly are all cats, or at least have cat tendencies.
Being Short Is A Turn-On
I wonder if guys feel about short girls the way that girls feel about tall guys. Like, do men get weird if a girl they like is over a certain height?
They Do Say Confidence Is Key
Maybe it's because having confidence is something that's a little bit hard to come by and not a lot of people have it in a way that's super noticeable when you first meet them.
Passion Makes You Passionate
We tease people about being nerds and stuff, but really, it's great to see that someone has something in the world that they love and that makes them really happy.
Making A List Gets Me Every Time
First off, talking with someone who wants to make plans with you about the future is exciting in itself, but someone who is going to support your love of making lists?
Frustrating, But Cute
The danger with this is that you're going to find someone who is going to make you frustrated on purpose just so they can hear that cute little sigh of yours.
You Either Love It Or You Hate It
Appreciating good grammar is a great quality to have, but you have to be kind of a jerk to think that those people who correct other people's grammar just to be a jerk are cool.
Everyone Loves That
Think of how the people wearing glasses must feel when they are able to give their eyes a good rub. It feels so good, almost like cleaning out your ears with a Q-tip.
It Says A Lot About A Person
Don't you love it when you walk into someone's house and it's way cleaner and nicer than you would have thought that it was going to be? It's a great feeling.
Get Those Hair Elastics Out
There is something cool about the way that women can flick their wrist a few times and bam their hair is in a cute little messy bun. There is something special about that.
