It’s Probably Over If He Sends You Any Of These Texts
Getting to know someone intimately is scary because you don't get to see how things will go. Will you two end up getting married, or will it end in heartbreak?
Fortunately for you, men love to indicate their intentions with text messages. Ladies, if you're unsure what his texts could mean, then continue reading, and you'll uncover when he's about to end things.
"I've Really Enjoyed Getting To Know You"
If you're talking to a guy and he hits you with this, you probably don't even need to respond.
Calmly take the loss and remember that there is someone better for you.
"It's Been Fun Hanging Out Lately"
The first two words of this phrase foreshadow this man's motives. He wants to leave things in the past, and that's that.
He was probably a jerk anyway, so good riddance.
A Last-Minute "I Have To Cancel Tonight"
If you two had plans set for the night, but he cancels on you at the last minute, that's a sign of cold feet or not having interest anymore.
When a guy really likes you, he wouldn't cancel at the last minute unless it was a serious emergency.
"I'm Sorry For Everything"
This is the guilty text he sends before dropping you. You might get confused as to why he's apologizing, but don't be.
He's trying to make himself feel better about leaving you.
"I Am Going To Have Drinks With A Friend"
Remember this, and never forget. If someone says "a" friend instead of "my" friend, it's probably someone you don't know.
Also, the chances are high that it's someone of the opposite gender.
"She's Just A Friend"
Right, and Michael Jordan just a basketball player. If she's just a friend, then why do you need to reassure others of that?
Be careful if you receive this message.
"But I Already Made Plans"
Did he really make plans, or is he attempting to avoid you? It's more than likely the latter, but you can still hold onto hope if you wish.
He could have told you earlier about the plans.
"Well, That's None Of Your Business"
How come it isn't any of her business, sir? What doesn't she need to know about, even though you two get to know each other more every day?
Watch out for a text like this; it doesn't mean any good.
If He Constantly Replies With "I'm Not Sure"
If this man is constantly not sure, then you shouldn't be sure about him. What's there to think about?
Either he wants to or not, so don't let his uncertainties mess with you.
"I Won't Be Able To Text For A While..."
He won't be able to text for a while because he wants to think of a proper exit strategy from this situation.
The more personal you take it, the more it hurts, so cut your losses and move forward.
About The Next Date, "I Don't Know, I'm Busy"
What he doesn't know is if he should still keep you around.
This isn't about anything else other than that, especially if you get this message via text instead of in person.
"I'll Call You Tomorrow After Lunch" Instead Of Being With You
You two had a lunch date planned, but instead, he hits you with the "I'll call you tomorrow after lunch."
This man has something up his sleeve, and it isn't good for you.
"Ok"
We pretty much all know about the dreaded "k," but "ok" coming from a guy can get just as ugly.
If he doesn't have any words for you, receiving no text probably would have been a better response.
"I'm Going To Sleep"
Is he really about to get some shut-eye, or is he dodging you?
Chances are it's the latter unless you two are in the early phases of getting to know each other.
"I Have A Lot Going On Right Now"
Okay, so he might have a lot going on right now.
The sad thing is, people make time for the things they want, but you aren't on that list of wants.
"Hey, Can We Talk In Person?"
Unless he has something non-related to the relationship, this text usually means it's time to face the music.
You two had a nice run, but the next time you see him in person, it's over.
"We Need To Talk"
Some guys don't have anything bad to say when they send you this text.
They might just need to tell you something important. Unfortunately, that is not always the case.
"You're A Great Person"
Yeah, if she was so great, then why are you about to end things with her?
This one is almost a dead giveaway as well, but don't be too hard on yourself.
"I Feel We Aren't Compatible"
He may feel like that, but what if you don't? This is his way of getting out of things without hurting your feelings too much.
You can try and fight for him, but that's probably not the best choice.
No Text At All
If your conversations with him through text have stopped, and you were the last one to reply, this thing is as good as dead.
Smile and know that there will be someone else.
“My Ex Used To…”
It’s OK to bring up an ex every once in a while. But, if the guy you’re seeing in constantly bringing them up, even when you’re not talking about your past relationships, that’s a huge red flag.
It means that she’s always on his mind, and that means you don’t have his heart the way you wish you did.
“We Will Hang Out Soon”
If he's sending you this text message, there is a good chance that you're not going to be hanging out any time soon.
Saying you're going to hang out without putting any effort into actually making plans is just an empty gesture.
"I Like Things The Way They Are"
This is a huge red flag and a sign that he's probably not someone you want to be involved with.
If he likes the limbo-style relationship that you have and doesn't want to define things, he's never going to see you as his girlfriend.
"Let's Talk About It Later"
This one might depend on the context. If they're genuinely busy and want to continue the conversation later, that's fine.
But, if they are sending you this text because they want to stop the conversation you're trying to have, delete his number.
"I'll Be Out Late, Don't Wait Up"
It might seem like he's just trying to be considerate, but he's actually trying to let himself off the hook.
If he puts it in your head that you should have no expectations of him coming home or talking to you for the rest of the night, is that OK?
"Just Give Me Some Time"
Sometimes people do need time to work through their emotions, but if they say they need time because they're confused or overwhelmed, make sure there is follow-up.
If a guy is sending this to you just to shut you down because they don't want to be held responsible, that's a bad sign.
"Whatever"
"Whatever" is just a rude text to send someone, no matter what the context is.
If a guy responds with "whatever" to a text you send him, then he doesn't care about what you're talking about or your feelings.
"Sorry, I Didn't See This Until Now"
We all know that people are on their phones all the time, at least enough to know when they have messages to check.
If a guy tells you they "didn't see your message until now," he's lying. He was ignoring you.
He Doesn't Text Back, But He Reacts To Your Message
Is there anything more frustrating than getting a notification and opening up your messages to see that someone "thumbs up" reacted to your text instead of responding?
How hard would it have been to type out an actual response?
"Ha"
Texting someone "ha" is a straight-up conversation ender. If you get this text from someone, they are trying to end your conversation.
Next time a guy sends you a "ha" text, block him. He isn't worth your time.
