Flirty Texts To Send When You Just Started Talking

When you first start talking to someone, it's fun to keep them engaged with those flirty texts that you love sending back and forth. You know, the ones that drop hints, that get you excited about what might be, and the ones that keep them coming back for more. If you're like me, you struggle with this stage of flirty and getting to know someone. It's so hard! Some of us can't turn on the charm as well as others can.

If that's the case, we have some texts that you can send to keep that conversation going when you first start taking.

"Flirting With You Over The Phone Is Fun, But It Would Be More Fun In Person"

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You want to drop hints that you want to spend time with this person because you like them! Don't let what you have turn into one of those annoying texting relationships.

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"I Have A Confession: I Can't Stop Thinking Of You"

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Sometimes, you have to just put it all out there and let them know that they're on your mind and you like it that way. Sending a text like this lets them know you're into them and that they can be open about their feelings with you, too.

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"Just Reminding You How Cute You Are"

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Little messages like this might seem cheesy or whatever, but they're actually really sweet. If it's a message you'd like to receive from someone, then it's likely a message someone would also like to get.

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"I Was Just Thinking About You So I Wanted To Say Hi"

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Checking in because someone was on your mind is a good way to remind them that you're still interested in seeing where things go! Plus, everyone likes the idea of someone thinking about them.

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"My Lips Are Still Swollen From That Makeout Session"

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Why not get extra flirty and jog their memory about some steaming time you've spent together. Nothing like a few steamy texts back and forth to ignite that "I want to see you now" passion.

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"Not Going To Lie, I Wish You Were Here Right Now"

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Wanting to spend time with someone is one of the most genuine things you can do. So it's nice to tell someone you wish they were around, especially if you're dropping hints you want them to come over.

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"Today Was Fun, We Should Do It Again Soon!"

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This is a great text to send to someone if you've just hung out and you're not ready for the communication to end yet. Let them know you had a good time and you're down to hang out again.

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"I'm Pretty Sure I Have A Crush On You"

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This kind of cutesy way of saying to someone you just started seeing that you like them and want to see where this goes is flirty and perfect for starting those oh-so-scary commitment talks.

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"Tell Me A Secret"

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This one is kind of overdone, but if you find the right place to sneak it in there it can work like a charm. We all have a secret handy that we share when a question like this comes up.

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"I Can't Stop Thinking About..."

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Maybe you had a really in-depth conversation or they shared something vulnerable with you. Letting them know that you've committed that to memory and it means something to you, too, is a great way to get their attention.

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"OK, So I Just Read The [Article] You Sent Me, We Have Things To Talk About"

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If they've made a suggestion about an article or book to read, make sure you actually do it! Because it's going to give you a good reason to reach out to them and it will show you're interested.

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"Pineapple On Pizza? Yes Or No?"

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Nothing gets a conversation going quite like a debate, and the pineapple on pizza one is a great place to start. Plus, it might teach you something about that person that turns out to be a deal-breaker.

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"This Made Me Think Of You"

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Everyone loves getting memes or hearing new songs, so if you have found something in your feed or while your music is on shuffle that actually makes you think of that person, it's a great idea to send it to them.

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"I Can't Wait To See You Again!"

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Sometimes, the simplest things can have the biggest message. Don't be afraid to be upfront with wanting to see someone again. Don't play games. If you want to make plans, make plans!

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"I Can't Sleep. Are You Up?"

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While this one is a bit hit and miss depending on how late it is, it does mean that it was late at night and you couldn't sleep, and they were the person you wanted to talk to. That's cute! And it could mean things are feeling serious.

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"[Restuarunt] Tonight At 7? You Down?"

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A great and casual way to make plans with someone is to send them a text with a place and time asking them to meet you. It saves you from the back-and-forth of not knowing where to pick.

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"I Just Finished My Show, Any Recommendations?"

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Watching your crush's favorite shows is a really good way to get to know them, and it's also a great way to get them talking about themselves—and who doesn't love to do that?

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"I Had A Dream About You Last Night!"

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If you're going to use this one, make sure that it's true, or that if it isn't, you have one lined up to share because they're going to ask you what it was about.

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"Good Morning! I Hope You Have A Great Day!"

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Who doesn't love getting a good morning text from someone they like? It is such a nice way to start the day, and it opens up the conversation for the rest of the day.

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"Let's Try That [Game/Place/Movie] You Were Talking About"

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Another great way to make plans with someone is to bring up something they mentioned and try and get them to go and try that thing with you. Plus, you'll be making memories together!