Dating App Conversation Prompts That Will Get Them Instantly Interested
You've taken the first step: you've downloaded the app. You've even curated your best pictures with the help of five of your friends, and you referenced your favorite movie in your bio. Now comes the hardest part: actually talking to people.
But don't worry, we've got some of the best opening lines to get you started on a beautiful journey.
"What's Next On Your Netflix Queue?"
Common interests are a great ground to start connecting with someone on. Their favorite shows and movies will reveal a lot about what they're into, and if you both happen to be watching the same thing, it will give you something to bond over and keep the conversation going.
"What Three Words Would You Choose To Describe Yourself?"
This question might take them some time to think about, but it will reflect how they view themselves, how confident they are, and what traits they think are most valuable. Plus, you'll then be able to take their answer and compare it with yours to see if you're compatible.
"If You Could Eat Only One Meal For The Rest Of Your Life, What Would It Be?"
Some people are okay eating canned beans every day, and some make a three-course meal just for themselves. Which one would you rather be with? This question can subtly reveal how adventurous or easy-going the person is just by what food item they're okay committing to forever.
"Do You Like Pineapple On Pizza?"
A little debate can keep things spicy, and asking if they like pineapple on pizza can spark a little bit of friendly controversy. Plus, it will reveal how open-minded and willing to accept other people's opinions they are. Or it can lead to you both going for pizza. Win-win.
"If You Were President, What Would be Your Anthem?"
This is a creative way of asking them what their favorite song is. It gets them thinking about the song that gets them going and that best represents their personality. This is also a good way for you to start exchanging songs and getting to know each other.
"If You Had Three Wishes, What Would They Be?"
This question is very quick to show a person's ambitions, dreams, and values. It is simple, but quite deep because it has no limits. Contrary to asking what a person does for a living, this question will reveal what they actually want to have and do in life.
"If You Were Offered The Blue Pill And The Red Pill, Which Would You Take?"
This is a fun way to see if you both share a love for The Matrix, but it can also lead to some very interesting philosophical and existential conversations if that is something you look forward to having with a partner.
"Are You A Morning Person Or A Night Owl?"
One quick and easy way to clash with a person is if one of you loves to stay up all night and the other prefers to get up at 6 a.m. and go for a run. This question reveals habits and lifestyle choices and asking it can save a headache down the line.
"What Is Your Spirit Animal?"
This is another question that quickly reveals how a person sees themselves or likes to be seen in terms of personality. For example, a person who chooses a tiger might see themselves as loud and the life of the party, while someone who chooses a horse might just be independent and free-spirited.
"Red Or White Wine?"
Sometimes, it's nice to just keep it simple and ask a question that doesn't require a lot of thought and can be answered quickly. The answer might not necessarily reveal a lot about the person, but it's good for breaking the ice and getting a conversation off the ground.
"What Is The First Thing You Do When You Wake Up?"
This is another question that gives you a glimpse into their habits and lifestyles to see if they match up with your own. For example, some people like to wake up and scroll on their phone to catch up on news and emails, while others like to get right out of bed, make a big breakfast, and exercice. Take your pick.
"What's The Best Advice You've Ever Received?"
This question can give really heartwarming results, and it can even arm you with a new array of advice to follow yourself. It can often reveal the importance of a person in their life who shared this advice with them, or it can give insight into their values based on what advice they choose to follow.
"What Three Things Are Always In Your Fridge?"
This is a fun question that can get all sorts of answers, but ultimately it's another coy way of asking someone what their favorite food is without limiting it to just one. You can make it fun with follow-up questions like "what are three different meals you can make with those items?"
"What Accomplishment Are You Most Proud Of?"
This is a good way to give them the floor and allow that person to shamelessly talk about their passions and their accomplishments. People light up when they talk about what they're passionate about, so it will show the person in their best light.
"What's Your Ideal First Date?"
This is a good substitute for directly asking a person if they see themselves as a romantic. It shows how a person likes to spend their time and where their favorite places are. Plus, you can then use their answer and go on that date yourselves.
"If You Could Be Anywhere In The World Right Now, Where Would You Be?"
Some people are content just where they are, which is okay, and some people can't sit still and want to see the world. If you are a homebody, you might choose to say "home," while if you are an adventurer you might say "Mount Everest." Either way, it makes for an interesting answer.
"If You Could Go Back In Time, Where Would You Go?"
This is a fun question because sometimes people choose to go back to see loved ones, and some people choose to meet up with historical figures or celebrities, depending on the person's interests. It will show you who the people are who mark that person's history.
"What's The Most Thoughtful Thing Someone's Done For You?"
This is a good way to get an understanding of what your partner finds meaningful. We all have our own languages which explain the way we like to be shown love. Some find it meaningful to receive gifts, while others find it more meaningful when you help them unload the dishwasher.
"You Have Beautiful Eyes"
Sometimes, the best way to start a conversation is by giving a simple, honest compliment. Try to get creative and compliment something specific you noticed in their picture or in their bio. The more specific the compliment, the better, as it's more likely to make that person feel special.
"If You Had A Superpower, What Would It Be?"
Answers usually vary between invisibility, mind-reading, and flight. It is not what they actually choose that matters, but the reasoning behind it. Do they want power for the sake of it, or because it allows them to go beyond what that they can usually do? It tells you a lot about a person.
