I went out on what was probably a third date with this guy, and he decided we were going to go to Red Lobster, even though I had told him countless times since we started talking that I don’t eat meat. I let it slide because I liked him. Then, when the waiter brought around those cheddar biscuits, this guy asked me to put them all in my purse so he could eat them later and the waiter would bring us more.
Weird, right? But hey, at least he paid.
Unlike This Guy, Who Literally Had A Meltdown About Red Lobster
Teonna was messaging the man she had been seeing, making some dinner plans that were a bit different than the ones they had made earlier that day, which was to go out for dinner.
She Was Honest With Him
She told him up-front that she knew he wanted to go out, but after paying her bills and getting groceries that day, she didn’t feel she was in a place to spend money on taking him out.
A Change Of Plans, Yes, But We’ve All Been There
Instead of being understanding and being grateful that she was willing to cook for him, he literally started having a meltdown, blowing up her phone with his self-righteous foolishness about “his level.”
He Was Not Impressed
Ladies, let me ask you something. Would you let a man stay in your life who was going to defame your character just because you were a little tight until next payday and couldn’t take him out?
He Literally Would Not Stop
“You’re not where I’m at physically, mentally, spiritually, or financially.” Boy, PLEASE! If that were even remotely true, you could buy your own dinner, and you wouldn’t be carrying on like this.
Then He Basically Told Her It Was Over
Imagine someone telling you that you just aren’t cut out to be on his level? Also, can we talk about his health? Red Lobster four times a week? That doesn’t seem right.
Like, Is He Done Yet?
Needless to say, after he had his big long temper tantrum, she didn’t quite know what to say. The thing is, someone like that isn’t going to change, are they? He’ll never see reason.
After She Posted His Rant, She Cleared Some Things Up
Thankfully, they hadn’t been seeing each other for very long, and the relationship hadn’t crossed over into serious dating yet. She explained that asking someone if they’re hungry is something she would ask anyone.
Turns Out This Isn’t The First Time He’s Been Shady
This little meltdown seems to have just been the straw that broke the camel’s back, because according to Teonna, this isn’t the first thing he’s done that’s rubbed her the wrong way.
He’s A Bit Of A Complainer
We’ve all got our own stuff going on, but we shouldn’t lay that all on someone else basically asking them without asking that they pay for our bills and take us out.
Who Was Saying She Deserved It?
Whoever was telling her that she deserved it is seriously insane, because even though she did change the plans, she didn’t deserve to be laid into like that. There is no reason to talk to another person that way.
It’s Not Her Fault She’s A Nice Person
Maybe there is a lesson to be learned here, but whatever that was doesn’t even matter anymore because he had to be such a jerk about all of this, you know?
Things Got Worse
To make matters worse, he decided that he was going to take to Facebook to try and defend himself, which you can imagine is just a bunch of unpunctuated garbage.
It Was A Lot To Take In
It’s actually wild to me that he thought he was justifiable in acting out the way that he did. There were lots of people in the comments trying to decide what his sign was…they mostly agreed on him being a Scorpio.
He’s Cocky, To Say The Least
“Why you think she’s tryna bring me food?” So because she was trying to bring you food, that automatically means you’re the greatest ever, not that she’s just a nice person?
Naturally, Twitter Was Not Having It
People were leaving lots of messages on her thread telling her that he was, in fact, crazy and that she wasn’t overreacting in being upset about the situation. They were also quick to call out his apparent love for Red Lobster.
People Also Started Having A Bit Of Fun
As you can imagine, he started getting memed. People found that his stance on not being brought Red Lobster was so ridiculous that there was no way it could be taken seriously in any way.
His Character Was Questioned
It does have to be asked, how did he end up being this way? Like, was he born this way, or was this something that he learned along the way?
I Guess He Just Wants What He Wants
And what he wants is someone who is up to his caliber and will bring him Red Lobster whenever he demands it. Is that too much to ask? Honestly, it’s the least he deserves… *eye-rolling emoji*
Even Chrissy Teigen Chimed In
You know you messed up when Chrissy Teigen, the actual queen of Twitter, got herself involved and was nice enough to inquire about his health. Maybe mercury poisoning explains his attitude?