You’re Doing Better Than You Think You Are

For those who get hit hard by life and struggle to get back up, this is for you. No one deserves to feel that way, so how about a few friendly reminders that you're probably doing better than you think?

Some people overlook the little things in life or even the big ones and immediately say things are bad when one thing goes wrong. Here are some perspective-shifting remarks.

You Have Time To Do More Than The Bare Minimum

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Some don't have the time or opportunity to do things outside of the bare minimum. If you woke up and accomplished a handful of things that weren't out of necessity, you're doing pretty good.

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You're Not Who You Were A Year Ago

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Like the seasons, humans change all the time. Some, however, tend to keep the same stances, opinions, and ideals for years. If you dared to grow and learn new things compared to last year, you're ahead.

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You Can Afford Gas Or A Cup Of Coffee Today

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Let's face it, having the luxury of being able to purchase your venti mocha says more than you think. If you consider everyone who couldn't afford a tank of gas today, you'd feel blessed.

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You Have One Or Two Close Friends

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Some have no friends, but you have one or two that are very close to you. That says a lot about the kind of person you are that they respect you enough to get so close. Keep your head up.

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You Can Eat For The Fun Of It

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Eating because you can is something you can't take for granted. Some only eat for survival, but you can use your Door Dash app to get some wings delivered at your command.

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You Don't Worry Where Your Next Meal Comes From

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Once again, eating is a pivotal part of recognizing how fortunate you are, compared to others. Some don't know when they'll get their next meal, while you choose when to eat.

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Free Time To Do What You Enjoy

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Having time is a luxury most don't recognize. We all have 24 hours in a day, but those hours aren't the same. Some have the leisure to enjoy it while others don't.

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You're Working

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Buddy, if you have an employer, that means you have a stream of income. Having money coming in bi-weekly or however often should help you refocus and let you see your luck.

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You're Questioning Yourself

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Believe it or not, doubting your life choices or feeling horrible some days might be a positive sign. It means that you still have room for improvement and that you shouldn't close your mind to new chances.

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You Paid The Bills This Month

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Would you look at that? Your bank account is lighter, but you aren't in danger of losing where you sleep or your car. Paying the bills is no fun, but it humbles you.

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You Have A Range Of Clothes At Your Disposal

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Not to be rude, but haven't you ever seen folks with no clothes, asking for money on the corner? If you're complaining that you don't have the newest Adidas, you have the wrong mentality. Having options is already enough.

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You Can Recognize What's Wrong In Your Life

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Being aware of oneself is the most important step. If you have that under control, then you can identify what isn't right in your life. That skill should let you know everything isn't as bad as you think because you can change it.

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You Have A Space Of Your Own

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This doesn't mean a full home or apartment, but maybe a bedroom. Anything where you have a roof over your head and clean, running water to use with some privacy is winning.

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You've Lost Relationships

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Losing a relationship because you chose not to settle down is a huge win. Losing a relationship because the other person decided it is still good because you have a chance to get better.

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You Have Interest In Something

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You might have a passion for painting, collecting wine, or sports. Whatever it is, it helps you live a happier life as you explore it more and learn about this thing.

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You Know How To Take Care Of Yourself

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Congratulations, you know how to wash your face and make sure you eat enough. You also know how to do laundry, which is a learned skill. You have a lot to be thankful for with all that.

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You Can Tell Your Younger Self Everything Is Okay

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Think about all the times you stressed when you were younger. You probably thought it was the worst that things could get. Look at you now, thriving and getting better each day.

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You're Working Towards Something

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If you have a goal in mind that you want to achieve, that's the first step. If you're making strides towards that goal, then you're already in a perfect position. Remain grateful as this guy's shirt says.

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You Can Easily Adapt

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The happiest people are the ones who can adapt to any environment. They can make any situation an ideal one, so if that's you, you have no room to complain with such a strong skill.

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You've Been Through Some Things

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Being able to look at the challenges you face now and compare them with those of the past is a great advantage. Some people don't go through anything, and when that day comes, they crumble.