Why It’s Time To Ditch Guys And Go On Your Own Adventures
The world is so big and beautiful. Although some things in it are great shared, others are better experienced alone. It's time for you to ditch boys and go on your own adventures.
Here are some of the best big and small adventures you can take on now as a strong, independent woman.
Volunteer And Feed Your Soul
Volunteering is a great way not only to broaden your perspective, but also to give you a sense of purpose.
You have so many skills and talents, so all you need is some time to help out. You can either take part in a volunteer trip down south or just go help out at the food bank near you.
Ladies-Only Hotel Perks
Did you know that more and more hotels are dedicating entire floors solely to women?
They come with special amenities like curling and flat irons, bath salts, loofahs, nail files, and yoga mats on top of an added sense of security.
Cooking Class To Master Your Kitchen
Every woman should master at least one specialty dish. It's the dish you make to treat yourself, the one everyone waits for at potlucks, and the one that gives that feeling of accomplishment when it's served.
There's no better way to master one than to go to a cooking class, which is a fun experience in itself!
Wine And Paint Nights Are Like Medicine
This relaxing experience lets your soul express itself anywhere. Pick up a canvas from the dollar store and a cheap wine bottle, or go the increasingly popular wine and paint nights, and tap into your creative and artistic side. You might even get new wall decor out of it.
Yoga-scape Your Cares Away
With your mind constantly racing, and being the on-the-go woman you are, yoga is a great way to center the body with the mind and focus on just breathing.
There are yoga retreats all over the world that are meant to bring you to such a zen place while you stretch on the beach. They're guaranteed to completely free your mind.
Learn To Dance It Out...Properly
Take your jumping-around to Taylor Swift to the next level and sign yourself up for a dance class near you.
Adult dance classes are just like children's ones: they let you move around freely while still giving you a killer workout. Double win!
Start A Journal To Work Out Your Mind
The mind needs to be exercised just as much as the body. Every woman should take the time to write down her thoughts and feelings instead of bottling them up or dismissing them.
You will start to notice your thought patterns, find ways to rationalize your feelings, and feel a lot more at peace with yourself.
Take The Train Anywhere
There is just something so peaceful about looking out the window of a train, a coffee in hand and music in your ears. Trains, unlike cars, take the scenic route.
It's a great way to live out the old saying: "It's about the journey, not the destination."
Travel On Your Own, "Eat, Pray, Love" Style
Well, it seemed to work for Julia Roberts, so why wouldn't it work for you? Pick your favorite type of destination, whether a mountain, beach, or crowded city, and go alone.
This soul-searching experience allows you to meet new people, try new food, and try living in a new and exciting way.
Outdoor Book Date
Reading isn't meant to be a shared activity anyway, so pick out your favorite book. Where does the book transport your mind? Find a location the book makes you think of and go read there, it will completely transform the way you experience the book!
Attend A Festival In A Unique Outfit
Pick a festival that excites you, one that features your favorite artist, the premiere of a movie you want to see, or a carnival, and create your own costume for it!
Not only will this give you a fun project, but it will heighten the way you experience the festival and make you feel like you're a part of something.
Go On A Hiking Expedition
It doesn't matter if you're 20 or 60, there is a hiking trail suitable for everyone and every level.
If you're feeling particularly adventurous, train to climb Mount Everest, the sky is the limit! If you can't afford to do that, just go to your local park and become one with nature.
Plan Spontaneous Weekend Road Trips
Traveling doesn't always have to be this carefully planned, far-away trip. Get in your car on a weekend with a backpack and go explore the next city.
Stay at a hostel, google their best restaurant, and go explore their market. You'll come back feeling like you've just been on a getaway!
Take Yourself To Dinner
Go put on the dress that makes you feel prettiest and a pair of heels and make a reservation for one at a local fancy restaurant. Pretend you're a critic and enjoy your meal alone. Talk to the waiter and ask to congratulate the chef.
Face Your Biggest Fear
It's time to face your biggest fear and conquer it! Afraid of heights? Try zip-lining, cliff jumping, or even skydiving. Claustrophobic? Take yourself to a crowded market. You will feel invisible afterwards.
Connect With The Universe
The universe is so big, and we are so small in it. Sit outside at night and look at the stars, it's easy to keep perspective and be reminded that we are a part of something bigger. This will make concerns all suddenly seem so insignificant in comparison.
Go Back To Being A Student
There is no reason to be confined to one career your whole life. If you have different interests or learned about a new path along the way, it is never too late to go explore it and learn more about it. Take an online course or go back to class and start fresh.
Discover Your Heritage
Start drawing a family tree and see how far back you can go. There are various websites that help dig into records for you or analyze your DNA. You might be surprised at where your heritage takes you.
Bench Press And Get Strong
Take yourself to the gym and start lifting. You'll be impressed at how fast you see the results. This not only releases happy chemicals in your brain, but it leaves you feeling strong and ready to take on whatever comes your way.
Redecorate Your Space
Change is good. Learn to embrace it by changing up the space you live in to fit your style and your mood. Create themes within your home, and add some extra oxygen with some plants. These little changes will make your house a home.