Woman Shares Her ‘Three Bees’ Method To Online Dating

There are many different aspects of the online dating world.

One question that often arises is when do you go from talking in the app to texting? A woman shared her method for when she'll add a man's contact details to her phone.

When Do You Add A Name From A Dating App?

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Photo Credit: @ryannstrngflw / TikTok
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Ryann, a woman currently using dating apps, decided to share her strategy on TikTok. She began her video by saying that, in general, ladies know not to add a dating app match's name to the contact list until he has been around long enough.

She has developed a system designed to help him earn that contact add that she wants to share.

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The "Bees" Method

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The system that she has created and uses is called the "The Bees."

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She uses the system for Bumble but says that it can be applied to any of the online dating apps.

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They Get Three Bees

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The way it works is that all of the Bumble matches she gives her number to get three bee emojis as their contact.

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The three bees represent three potential dates that they will go on.

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Three Dates Is A Long Time

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In the online dating app world, Ryann says that three dates actually feel like a lot longer.

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After each date, the match loses one of his bees in her phone. After they have gone on three dates, she will add his actual name as a contact.

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How It Looks In Action

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Ryann decided to show everyone her three bee method in action.

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She has one man who she is talking to but he still has three bees because they have not gone on a date yet.

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Down To Two Bees

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Another man is down to two bees after their first date. She thinks that she might be getting ghosted by this man so he might always have two bees.

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She says so far no one has lost all three bees, but she's still hopeful. What do you think of Ryann's method?