Bride Ditches Hubby And Marries The Best Man After Hearing Wedding Speech

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the best man with a better proposal?

At least that was what happened to one woman named Desiree White when she found herself the subject of the best man’s wedding speech.

A Woman Shared Her Weird Wedding Story On TikTok

In a video uploaded to her TikTok account, Desiree made a startling revelation.

Screenshot from TikTok video of woman explaining she married the best man from her first wedding
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok

She used captions to explain that at her first wedding, the best man used his wedding speech to profess his love for the newlywed bride.

Comments Started Flooding In So Desiree Offered Some Context

It didn’t take long before the judgmental comments started rolling in on Desiree’s post.

TikTok comments explaining how a woman married a cheater and left him for the best man at their wedding
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok

She was quick to clarify some details before making a couple of longer videos to explain the whole story for anyone who was curious.

She Didn’t Have A Copy Of The Speech But She Did Have Pictures

Curious commenters asked to see the speech but Desiree said that she didn’t have the video anymore.

Screenshots from TikTok video of best man at wedding holding microphone and blonde woman smiling
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok

She did reveal that her ex-husband’s parents have the original wedding footage but she was absolutely not about to ask them for it.

A Picture From The Ceremony

What she did have was a couple of pictures from the fateful moment that she shared with her followers.

Best man speech at wedding, bride is laughing
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok

Sitting beside her ex-husband (whose face is blurred out), Desiree laughs and smiles through the best man’s wedding speech confession.

Happily Every After

Reflecting on the whole thing, Desiree recalled how she and the best man always had a connection from the very first time they met in high school.

Screenshots from TikTok of husband and wife smiling
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok

But they had never actually dated because his friend was also interested in her. Fast-forward through all of the chaos and she’s now married to the best man from her first wedding (pictured).

Comments From Men Were Especially Judgmental

Lots of people were eager to share their negative opinions on Desiree and her husband’s backstory.

Comments section from viral TikTok video of men judging woman who married the best man her cheating first husband chose
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok

A lot of men left comments saying that it was “disrespectful” or a “betrayal” on the best man’s part, but Desiree was quick to fire back.

The Relationship Is Completely Fractured (But That’s OK With Desiree)

Desiree also admitted that she no longer communicates with her ex, nor does her current husband.

TikTok comment asking if the man is her husband
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Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok

It’s not exactly surprising because that’s a hard breakup to come back from.

She’s Dealing With All The Negativity

For Desiree, the craziest part of the whole thing is how many people had opinions on her life when she shared it on TikTok.

Screenshots from TikTok video with captions: Rude comments on tiktok, still happily married
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok
Photo Credit: @desiree.white / TikTok

She chooses to ignore the rude comments and focus on the fact that she has been happily married to her best man hubby for over 10 years now.