People are people and people change, what more can we say? If it feels like you bounce from one person to the next like the worst, most emotional version of musical chairs and you have no idea why stop getting angry at yourself and look at your star chart.
Here are the reasons that all the zodiac signs may start to fall out of love. It's a decent tool to try and understand yourself better and why you're falling for the same beanie-wearing type of Tinder guy only to quickly move to the next only a few months later. Or, it'll give you more motivation to pass on the whole dating thing altogether.
Aries (March 21-April 19) Aren't Out-Earning Their Partners
Aries are bold, competitive, and love to be recognized by everyone as so. Obviously, since they're so great (according to them). They're right at the front of your pilates class killing it, driving 70 in a 50, running three miles every day, and doing it all while paying their credit card bills on time.
But if an Aries partner is doing better than them, especially in obvious salary differences, they might find themselves drifting on to be number one in a different relationship.
If You're Not A Challenge, Aries Might Dip Out
Aries are notorious for being bull-headed despite being rams, and they love tackling even the most daunting challenge. Often times, they're attracted to people they doubt they're going to get much farther than initial awkward texting flirting with.
If they find themselves in a stable relationship with that particular hard-to-get person they met at Whole Foods, they might lose interest and go off in search of another thrilling chase.
If You're Not Green, You Might Not Be Good With Taurus (April 20-May 20)
Taurus is an Earth sign, which means that they hold a special type of love for anything green. That means they've got six pairs of Blundstone shoes at home for every trail, they're following mostly naturalists on Instagram, and they're getting on your case about using plastic straws (haven't you heard about what those do?)
So if you can't get behind their ethics and abandon single-use plastics, Taurus might leave you behind.
You Might Not Be Chill Enough For Tauruses
This sign literally starts its astrological ascent on April 20th... do I need to say more? Tauruses are chill, grounded, and practical, and they appreciate it when they're surrounded by low-drama people who aren't going to spike their stress levels and ruin the vibe—whatever that is.
So if you're always in motion then a Taurus might get overwhelmed by your energy and start to slowly drift away.
Get A Hobby If You Want To Keep A Gemini (May 21-June 20) Engaged
Geminis listen to Wiz Khalifa's "Young, Wild & Free" on repeat 24/7 as they're biking, doing pottery, and completing their stem cell research project that's totally going to save the world (if they get it done).
Geminis are notorious for being interested in so many things, and if you're going to be with one, you better have a diverse range of interests or they're going to lose interest. Better sign up for a Groupon.
You're Not Deep Enough For Your Gemini
Geminis are a sign of communication, so they're the type to invite you over "just for talks." Their favorite activities are to sit down on their couch with you and totally get into the psychology of why you always choose Calibri font over Times New Roman.
If you can't handle basically being a guest on a podcast multiple times a week, then your Gemini might leave to find a better talking partner.
You Doubt A Cancer's Intuition (June 21-July 22)
If you know someone who's weirdly psychic, you can almost bet this person is a Cancer. Cancer's are highly intuitive and they love to "read" people—aka call them out on the little personality things they think they're keeping hidden that Cancers can weirdly spot.
Even if they're dead wrong, you can't really call a Cancer out on not being psychic or else they might feel like you're doubting them and move onto someone who won't.
Cancers Don't Have Time For Your Commitment Issues
Cancers are lovers, that's why crabs are called... crabs. Actually it's not, but the fact remains that Cancers are seriously devoted in their affections towards their partners.
They love to love and they love to show their love, so if you're not super ready for a loving relationship and would rather not say those four words to a Cancer, then you'll find them losing interest fast.
You Didn't Celebrate A Leo's (July 23-August 22) Birthday (Enough)
If there's one thing Leos and Aries can agree on, it's that their personal sign is the best. Leo's are the golden center of their universe and should be yours too (because they deserve the spotlight obviously).
So when their birthday rolls around and you only get them a card and don't bother taking a week off work to spoil them, then you better be prepared to get dropped because they feel they're being under-appreciated.
You Didn't Spend The Sunday How The Leo Wanted To
Leo's aren't controlling, but they are natural-born leaders and would prefer it if you wouldn't fight them on that. If they're totally down to go to this cute vegan brunch place and you're dead-set on staying in and cooking eggs, you're going to rub a Leo the wrong way.
If there are tons of little nit-picky fights where you two butt heads over the littlest things then a Leo is going to hit the road and find someone who actually accepts their (help?)
You're Just Too Freaking Messy For A Virgo (August 23-September 22)
The reason your Virgo is mad at you today is because you didn't empty the dishrack, you didn't fold your shirts right, and you hit "remind me tomorrow" for the 57th day in a row when your computer wanted to update.
Virgos are big on order, method, and organization, and if you're not down to follow Marie Kondo's teachings with them then you better get ready for a breakup.
You're Too Critical For A Virgo
Virgos, despite being the most outspoken advocates for order in your life, are actually pretty critical of themselves. If they get in their heads about something minor it can be hard to pull them back out, and the last thing they need is someone else judging them too.
So if you're telling a Virgo that their homemade chili recipe "needs improvement" they might end things to make it easier on themselves.
Don't Ask A Libra (September 23-October 22) To Pick Sides, Because They Won't
Libras are all about balance and harmony (hello scale), so when they're caught between two differing sets of opinions they're more likely to freeze up and avoid the confrontation all together than actually express what they're feeling.
So don't get into an argument about the most banging song of 2019, because a Libra won't back you up. In fact, they might just fade away so they don't have to deal with any of the drama you have.
You're Not Adventurous Enough For A Libra
Like Tauruses, Libras are huge lovers of nature, travel, and really anything they can walk around in that's pretty. They're usually off on some sort of adventure somewhere even if you only find out about it through their Instagram stories.
That's cool and all, but if you're working a 9-5 trying to make money and your Libra wants to explore the world with you, they might lose interest because you're not fulfilling their travel bug.
You're Not Speaking Your Mind Enough For A Scorpio (October 23-November 21)
Even though Scorpios are known to be pretty passionate, they're not the type to try and steamroll you into agreeing with them. These fiesty water signs (not fire signs, don't get it twisted) love to sit down with you and really hash things out because they're emotional at their core.
So if you're not super connected to your emotions and your default text is that you're "fine," they're probably leaving to find someone more honest.
You Offended A Scorpio One Time Six Years Ago
Remember your brother's birthday party like six years ago that you and your Scorpio went to that you suggested that they were underdressed for? You don't remember? Well, your Scorpio does and they're pissed about it.
For all this sign's strengths, they can sometimes hold a grudge and sometimes they can be strong enough to end things.
You're Not Into Documentaries Enough For A Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)
Sagittarius are cerebral people—they love a good intellectual discussion that both broadens their minds and reminds everyone who the true expert is in every field is (it's them, obviously).
So if you're not game to really get into the nitty-gritty of why you think Ikea doesn't have a good business plan, then get ready for your Sagittarius to leave you for more stimulating conversation.
The Wallflower In You Doesn't Work With The Social Butterfly Sagittarius
Sagittarius are known extroverts, it's just what they do. They walk into a room and immediately are the people bringing everyone's mood up with their wit, cheer, and the copious amounts of alcohol they're supplying.
So if you're more of the type to stand in the corner of a social function than circle around with the Sagittarius and get the party started, they might move on to find a better match.
Honestly, Just Give It Time And You'll Drive A Capricorn (December 22-January 19) Away
No offense to Capricorns, they're a great sign. But they can be so serious and grounded that eventually pretty much everything gets on their nerves. Luckily, this is a known thing and many Capricorns obviously work to course-correct when they feel themselves getting bitter.
But if your relationship with one ends inexplicably, they may have just grown tired of you like they do a lot of things.
You Don't Want The Same Long Term Things As Your Capricorn
Capricorns are sensible, grounded, and mature people at their core, so they literally do not play games. If this sign sees a future with you, then they're putting their all into growing your relationship and that's incredibly sweet.
But they're also pragmatic enough to realize that if you two fundamentally disagree on big decisions like having kids, marriage, and what city to live in, then they're going to end things.
You're Just Too Dang Much For Your Aquarius (January 20-February 18)
Aquarius' are the cute, shy, and intellectual types that you slowly fall in love with until you're standing outside of their window professing your eternal love to them. They're great, but they can be really shy and introverted.
Aquariuses value their alone time which they need to recharge after pretty much every social interaction. If you're too much, too clingy, and way too forward with them they're going to get timid and shy away.
You're Not Invested In Enough Social Causes For Your Aquarius
Aquariuses are intellectual, deep thinkers, and are naturally drawn to doing things that can change the world for the better. You can find them walking adoption dogs, on mission trips, and basically just invested in stuff that makes them feel like they're making a difference.
So if you'd rather stay in bed on a Saturday morning than go plant trees, you might be a mismatch for the sign.
You're The Kind Of Selfish That Takes Advantage Of A Pisces (February 19-March 20)
Pisces are highly empathetic signs that love to make you feel good. They're the type to buy you presents, show up at your work to pick you up if it's raining, and generally just be into spoiling you.
But if you start to expect their kindness and not appreciate it for what it is, then Pisces are going to question whether or not you're really into the relationship or just like the perks of it.
You Said Your Pisces' Taste In Music Sucked
Pisces are known to be creative, intuitive, and curious individuals and their music taste is going to reflect that. They've got the hookup on underground shows you've never heard of and have introduced you to yodeling metal music.
So the biggest insult you can give a Pisces is one that calls into question their creativity and they might just leave you for it.