People Shared Their Most Toxic Traits On Twitter And Things Got Vulnerable
Being self-aware is a wonderful trait to have, and yet not all of us have it. It's hard to look at ourselves and be honest about things that may need to be changed. Twitter users were letting their guard down and sharing what their most toxic traits are.
It's comforting to know that the worst thing about yourself is also the worst thing about lots of other people, too.
Making The First Move Is Hard.
But for all you know, the person you most want to talk to might be thinking the same thing as you! How else is someone supposed to know that you're interested?
The Struggle Is Real!
Procrastinating is the WORST. You know the whole time you're watching Netflix you should be doing something more productive, but one more episode won't hurt. Everything gets done eventually.
I'm Sure This Isn't True.
But, if you catch yourself stepping over people's boundaries or even start to get annoyed with yourself, it might be time to take a breather. You don't have to be talking constantly to someone to be close to someone.
We've All Been Here.
We can't help how we feel, or how someone else feels about us, and it sucks! Somehow we get stuck with feelings for someone we know isn't going to be ours.
Craving Approval Is Stressful.
And it's OK to want people to think well of you, but it shouldn't come at the cost of your wellbeing. You shouldn't have to compromise your style, morals, or taste for anyone!
I Think This Is Just A Human Trait.
I don't understand how some people get up hours before they have to go to work and do grown-up things like cook breakfast, make lunch, and then head to the gym? Wild.
It Can Be Hard To Take Your Time.
This is especially true if it's with someone you really like. And it isn't just with romantic interests either — it can happen with friends, too. The worst is if you don't even know it's happening until it's too late.
We All Love Sweets.
I've never had a Hostess Orange Cupcake but it sounds gross. If the worst thing about you is your taste in cupcakes, then you have enough confidence to help us all out. Help us get there, please!
Being A People Pleaser Is Exhausting.
I'm the same way. I always think that the things I need to do for myself can be done at any time and I never want anyone to have a reason to dislike me.
Asking For Help Can Be Scary.
You don't want to seem needy or overly dramatic, but if you need help, I promise the people who love you would rather have you ask than go it alone.
A Very Canadian Trait!
I struggle with this one, I'm sorry for everything! Then when someone calls me out on it I say sorry for saying sorry too much and it just spirals out of control.
Trust Issues Are Legit.
It can be good to be a bit skeptical sometimes, but there are many of us who struggle with trust issues, especially if you've been burned before. Keep your guard up, but not so high you can't let people in.
Sounds Like An Introvert To Me.
It's easy to make plans when you're with people and it all seems so exciting, but the follow-through? 80% of the time, it isn't happening. People can just be exhausting!
Being Alone With Our Thoughts Is Dangerous.
You can turn anything into a bad thing if you think too hard about it. Before you know it you've thought yourself into an endless, negative spiral and hurt your own feelings.
Jealousy Can Be Toxic.
Sometimes you don't trust your partner, and sometimes you don't trust other people to be respectful. It's healthy to have a bit of jealousy, but not so much it's a problem.
Dressed To Kill.
Girl, no one should ever be sorry for this! Unless you've dressed way too formal or over the top for something that's supposed to be casual, in which case you gotta chill.
Not Everything Is Your Fault.
It's called the Halo Effect. We let the good qualities we see in someone make up for any of their bad qualities (which we all have) but it can be dangerous.
Communication Is Key.
But, if you need some time to collect yourself and your thoughts so you don't say anything you'll regret, ask for it! Some of us need time to process or understand how we feel ourselves before we can share it.
I Don't Think This Is Always A Toxic Trait.
Needing a lot of alone time is OK. It's also OK to be shy. Making sure your needs are met is the first step in making sure you can offer the best version of yourself to the people in your life.
The Grass Is Always Greener.
No one should settle, not for anything, but every once and a while you gotta take a step back and appreciate what you have. At one point it was everything you wanted.
