Conversation Starters To Help Get Them Out Of Their Shell
No one likes awkward silences. It's also tough to appreciate someone who can't keep a conversation going. To avoid both of those things, all you have to do is know the right questions. It's as easy as that, so here are some conversation starters that will help you stave off the awkward silence while getting to know someone.
What Was Your Worst Job?
This is an excellent question because the person will usually have a lot of reasons to explain why it was their worst job. Bonus points if it was the same industry as your worst job.
What Is Something I Wouldn't Believe About You?
The chances are high that everyone has something they keep to themselves because others wouldn't believe it. I'm not talking about superpowers, just anything that would make someone say wow.
What Conspiracy Theories Do You Believe In?
Some people believe in some, and others don't. Before you ask this one, be sure to read the room. Do you think this person is someone who believes in wild theories? If so, you can spark an exciting conversation from this.
If You Could Only Have One Kind Of Food Forever, What Would It Be?
Many people are passionate about their food. You never know if you have a foodie on your hands until you ask, and you find out about all the secret menu items at your favorite restaurants.
Which Household Chore Do You Actually Enjoy?
On the off-chance this person says none, you should start a pretty heated discussion. "I think doing the dishes isn't as fun as vacuuming, and I stand by that statement." Prepare a good rebuttal ahead of time.
What's The Ideal Way To Spend A Vacation?
The ideal way to spend a vacation varies with everyone. This is a great question because it will make this person think about something peaceful and fun while they're with you.
Which Fictional Character Would You Marry?
If given a chance, which fictional character would this person marry? Undoubtedly, there's at least one celebrity actor or actress who tickles their fancy from some movie. Be prepared to have your answer.
Would You Rather Have Unlimited International Tickets Or Never Pay At Restaurants?
The travelers will have a fun time answering this question. Free food at any restaurant or free international travel is a tough question for anyone to respond to, so expect a decent response.
Which Of Your Parents Are You Closer To?
This is a fun question to ask after this person has brought their parents into the conversation. Of course, this is best fitted for when you're getting to know someone early.
What's Something You Wish You Knew More About?
Maybe this person finds animals interesting. Perhaps film production is something that's always caught their eye. Whatever it may be, it's important enough for them to want to know more, so be attentive.
What Decade Do You Think You Fit Most In?
Here's a good question because it can lead to multiple answers. If the person you ask says the 1920s, for example, they'll probably follow that up with how much they like to get drunk.
What's The Worst Thing Your Parents Did To Embarrass You?
Parents can do a lot with little time and no notice, so this question will get this person digging deep for that most embarrassing moment. As long as you have your response ready, you'll be fine.
Are There Any Stereotypes That Are True With You?
This can go for men or women, short people or tall ones, it doesn't matter, because there are stereotypes for pretty much every type of person. Their answer might surprise you.
What Are You Too Old To Do But Still Enjoy?
For guys, the answer to this could be playing video games (even though there shouldn't be an age limit on that). Whatever it might be, it's something new you two can discuss together.
Do You Have Any Secret Skills?
You never know what someone could be hiding up their sleeve. People have special skills that no one would know about unless they took the time to ask and see.
Could You Go Two Weeks Without Your Phone?
Here's a question that anyone under the age of 36 should sweat over when they hear it. Before you ask this person, ask yourself if you'd be willing to go without your phone for 14 whole days?
Where Would You Want To Live If You Won The Lotto Tomorrow?
Dive into their mind and see where a person fantasizes about living. You'll probably see their face light up as he or she discusses why moving there is on their mind.
Where's The Next Foreign Destination You Want To Go?
It could be Spain, France, or Greece, you never know what wanderlust people hold inside. If it's a destination you don't know about, now's your chance to ask about it.
Is There A Skill You Still Want To Master?
Maybe this person has always wanted to learn the piano but never has the time to get to it. That could be an interesting story to discuss if that's the case.
What's Your Favorite Guilty Pleasure TV Show?
Let's face it, everyone has that one show that they mark their calendars for as they await the new season. Feel free to ask, and hope that it's a show you also like.
