Are You Giving Off Just Horrible Energy?
These days, it's probably a great idea to make sure you emit the right energy. People can sense when you give off bad vibes, whether they're aware of it or not.
Thankfully, some cues let you know you when you're giving off just the worst energy. Some animals might not even want to get near you in those moments. That's one hint, but prepare for the rest.
Animals Shy Away From You
This one might sound ridiculous, but animals tell you a lot by how they act around you. If you don't get along with dogs or kids, that's a clear sign you give off bad energy, certified life coach Lori Bryant Woolridge revealed.
Friends Don't Come To You For Advice
Whether you like giving advice or not, friends usually turn to their buddies for it. If you've never been the one they've asked for help, there's your clue right there.
Others Always Ask What's Wrong
It's something you should consider if folks always ask what's wrong even if you're in a good mood. It could be the way you hold yourself around others or how you communicating.
People Have Been Pulling Away
Feel free to vent to friends when something terrible happens, but don't let it become a habit. All that negativity can lead to people starting to pull away because they don't need that in their lives.
People Have Closed-Off Body Language
A massive signal of discomfort is when people have closed-off body language. Things like crossing their arms, or pointing their legs away from you when you're talking tell you that they're not feeling your vibe.
Others Avoid Eye Contact
Humans are sensitive to the energy others give, so they come up with defense mechanisms. One way they do that is by not looking someone in the eye while talking to them.
Friends Stay Busy
Are your friends always busy? Do they always have something to do when you invite them somewhere, but you see them out on their social media? It sounds like you aren't someone they like being around, and that could be thanks to your energy.
You Get In Lots Of Arguments
Constantly arguing with people doesn't make your energy any better. That lowers the vibes you emit and will have others skeptical of hanging out around you. Focus on observing and not on judging.
Negative People Pop Up Wherever You Go
The law of attraction is real in many cases. If you're always negative, you'll more than likely end up around others with the same energy wherever you go. Change yourself and your environment will change too.
It's Hard To Make New Friends
This is probably one of the most telling signs. If you try to make friends, but it's always a hassle, you probably aren't the most positive person, or you're too shy.
You Can't Get Organized
Living a super messy life doesn't mean you're negative, but it could be a warning sign. Sometimes you're busy, but if you want organization and can't achieve it, tune into your energy for the fix.
You're Passed Over For Promotions
Your negative energy could directly impact your ambitions. If you noticed you missed out on a promotion at work, take notice of that and think about the vibes you give.
You're Breaking Out
No matter how much you tend to your skincare routine, you find that you keep breaking out on your face. Stress comes from negative energy, and that stress becomes acne.
You Keep Attracting The Same Kind Of Partner
You haven't lasted in a relationship very long, and you keep getting with the same type of person. Look in the mirror and understand something has to change, and it's probably your vibes.
People Change The Subject A Lot
If you only bring up negative things, then you can expect folks to change the subject rather quickly. No one wants to hear you complain for minutes when they can talk about other things.
Most Of What You Talk About Is Gossip Or Complaints
What is the subject matter of your conversations? Someone with positive energy will likely talk about things that make you laugh, inspire you, or get you thinking. Negative folks love to gossip and complain.
You Constantly Feel Impatient
Nobody really likes waiting in line, but some people can handle it better than others. Your internal energy determines how you handle waiting. People can sense your impatience and anxiety when you have to wait, according to spiritual coach Davida Rappaport.
Your Debates End In Arguments
Even when you attempt to have a friendly debate with someone, the end results aren't always that great. Things escalate into arguments, and now you added someone else to the list that's "busy" when you ask to hang.
Exhaustion Is Your New Best Friend
You don't have the energy you used to have, and all you want to do is lie down. If that's the case, you should reevaluate your life choices to gain a more positive perspective.
Your Partner Shuts Down
Your partner can only take so much before shutting down. If the person you're with tried to ask you to fix things, but you haven't, there's only so much time before the shutdown.
