10 Reasons It’s So Hard For Strong Women To Find A Good Partner
Strong women have a lot of good things going for them. You're smart, funny, independent. You have your act together and know you're a great catch. So how come you can't find a decent partner? Here are 10 things that could be going on.
Potential Partners Are Intimidated By You
A big reason strong women can sometimes feel like they have an issue getting someone worth it is that people are intimidated by them. When potential partners see that you don't need them, it can make some keep their distance since they're not sure how to deal.
You See Right Through The Fake Façade
One great thing about being a strong and smart woman is that you can spot trash from miles away. You don't allow yourself to be in the same room as people who have a lot of issues and choose to avoid it.
You're Not Dependent On Others
You're so strong you might not even realize that what's happening is that you don't actually need anyone. It would nice to date, but you know in your heart that you don't need to. You're sending those signals out and people are reading them.
You Want A Partner Who Is Your Equal
For some strange reason, when a woman is strong, the universe likes to send them losers who are arrogant enough to think they have a shot. They aren't worth your time.
You Can Spot The Red Flags Immediately
You can spot red flags early because chances are you've had rough experiences with dating in the past. They've toughened you up and you've learned what to spot before they're your problem.
It's Easy To Become Jaded About Your Love Life
The issue with being strong and having some bad luck with past relationships is that you're a tad jaded. It can be hard to find someone great. The more you stay away from jerks, the more you realize how many jerks are out there.
You're Dealing With Your Own Commitment Issues
The issue isn't always with the people you're interested in, it could be you. You could be afraid to commit and not want to take the chance on anyone, even if they seem like a catch.
You Attract People Who Are Looking To Rely On You
Unfortunately, in today's dating world, the chances of ending up with a man-child are too high. When you're strong, you might attract someone who is looking for someone to rescue them. It happens, but you can't fix them!
You Settle For Less Than You Deserve
Sometimes, the issue with finding a good partner is that you're settling. You might think that a person worth waiting for doesn't exist. No one can blame you for that, but don't settle for the ones who are wasting your time.
You Expect A Lot From Your Partner
Being a strong, smart woman means you shouldn't settle, but sometimes it could also mean your standards are super high. There's nothing wrong with being fussy in the dating game, but you could be focusing on superficial qualities that don't matter like their height.
